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Originally Posted by reds37win
My suggestion would be to include her more in activities that may include others. You've talked about hanging out with guys at the gym, etc., but that isn't something the two of you can share.
Colorado should be a great place for exploration. Take some of your time off and go explore the area. Build some memories for the two of you and try to include others in those activities.
Yes, she committed to you to move to Colorado and try something new. If you know she is having trouble, think about offering as much help as you can, since you seem to be doing better when meeting other people.
Are none of your gym buddies married?
I would also try to assure her that things will come to her in time. It could take six months or a year for her to settle in, but it will come.
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This. I am facebook friends with a couple who moved here a year ago. They go hiking and camping together at least a couple times a month.
My creative writing group is my social circle here, along with my dog sports friends.
IL isn't that far away though - can't she make the occasional trip back home to visit friends?
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