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Old 01-30-2017, 08:13 AM
 
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By sketchy what exactly do you mean? How I just leave for work and come home and park in the garage? I hardly go out
You're staring at him out of your windows and from your balcony and keeping tabs on him. Just reading about your behavior weirds me out, and I'm not the one it's directed at.
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:15 AM
 
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You sound like an egomaniac. This guy is just going about his life and you are having all sorts of weird theories. He probably is afraid to say anything to you based on your odd behavior. He most definitely isn't jealous of you.
Staring hard at someone as they're going home for 2 and a half years is going about your life? I beg to differ. If i would've done something to him I would understand
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:19 AM
 
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You're staring at him out of your windows and from your balcony and keeping tabs on him. Just reading about your behavior weirds me out, and I'm not the one it's directed at.
No im not man. I'm not keeping tabs on him if anything it's him. I only looked at him last night from my bedroom window because I had a sense he was going to come out. I know how would I know that well I have a gift and a curse. Besides the time I tried to say hi I never really look for the guy
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:22 AM
 
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Why are you looking to provoke him? You need to let it go, it's not a big deal. If it bothers you so much you may want to consider moving before it comes a big deal.
I'm not provoking the guy I tried saying hi to him already. If anything I was trying to be nice to the guy
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:27 AM
 
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Ok well I would hate to bring race into the mix but one of the maintenance guys told me that he think this guy is prejudice. That it seems like he doesn't like Hispanics. Keep in mind I never brought up the neighbor first. Why he would think my neighbor is prejudice is beyond me. Maintenance guy said he always treats them bad. One thing that comes to my mind is that I used to work for the sheriffs office and my neighbor would see that. He smokes a lot of marijuana maybe that could be a reason as well
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:28 AM
 
Location: Houston area
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I know how you feel. It's like the guy is stalking you. It really bothers me when somebody keeps staring at me. It's creepy, especially when it's the same sex. They watch every move you make.

Maybe you should just go up to him. Tell him you notice that he is watching you and ask why he is doing that?
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:29 AM
 
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You're staring at him out of your windows and from your balcony and keeping tabs on him. Just reading about your behavior weirds me out, and I'm not the one it's directed at.
Not to mention playing excessively loud music and not understanding why this might be a problem for others, and spitting - spitting! - off a twenty-foot balcony, in the direction of the neighbor.

I think the OP needs a hobby that does not involve loud music, trucks - or his neighbor. Think of all the good that could have been accomplished during the time devoted here, as well as in real life, to these imaginary issues.
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Just live your own life and mind your own business.

If he stares, just wave and give a very enthusiastic Hiya! and he will think you are nuts and leave you alone.

Works for me.
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Old 01-30-2017, 09:00 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I know man but one thing I dislike is people that show off to me thinking that I'm showing when in reality I'm just being myself. I mean what's wrong with playing my music loud
You are not saying HI. You are staring him down. You hang out on your balcony to stare at him. You spit. ... You play your music loud.


But no, of course YOU are not the problem here
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Old 01-30-2017, 09:06 AM
 
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You sound weird to me
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