Is it me or is my neighbor envious of me? (definition, conversation)
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You are not saying HI. You are staring him down. You hang out on your balcony to stare at him. You spit. ... You play your music loud.
But no, of course YOU are not the problem here
Just that one time I'm on the balcony and oh no I'm causing problems lol I hardly go outside. I spit that one time where my garage is, not anywhere near him. It was a straight down spit I know it's not good manners but I wanted to get his attention to say hi. Not exactly the right way to get someone's attention but I did. I thought maybe if I show myself and say hi he will leave me alone already. I was too generous with saying 20 feet more like his apartment is 40 feet away. There's two neighbors in between us. There's nothing wrong with playing my music loud if I'm not doing it on purpose. Now I understand if it's extremely loud than I'm at fault there. But you wouldn't understand that I'm a very peaceful guy unless I'm messed with for no reason. I admit when I'm wrong.
Not to mention playing excessively loud music and not understanding why this might be a problem for others, and spitting - spitting! - off a twenty-foot balcony, in the direction of the neighbor.
I think the OP needs a hobby that does not involve loud music, trucks - or his neighbor. Think of all the good that could have been accomplished during the time devoted here, as well as in real life, to these imaginary issues.
I never spit in his direction. I was too generous in saying his apartment is 20 feet away more like 40 feet. There is two apartments between us. All I wanted to do that time was show myself and say hi hoping he would leave me alone but he didn't want none of that. My opinion is loud music isn't a problem unless it's done on purpose which isn't the case but like I said in a past post I'm not going to play my music so loud anymore. Going to workout with low music. Only good thing about that is that people are going to hear my hard punches now
Only good thing about that is that people are going to hear my hard punches now
Ok for real brah ...
You aren't impressing anyone with your truck and your loud music and your hard punches.
Just let it go. You gave off a bad impression from the start by not at least saying, "What's up" the first time you passed him. Now you're perpetuating this imaginary battle. STOP.
Live your life and stop thinking that people are envying or judging you for it. Most people are not that observant.
Your neighbor keeps looking at you because you keep staring at him. He's probably told his friends about the straight neighbor who keeps staring at him and acting weird....and that neighbor is YOU. Just stop. Quit looking at him.
the OP needs a hobby that does not involve loud music, trucks - or his neighbor. Think of all the good that could have been accomplished during the time devoted here, as well as in real life, to these imaginary issues.
I know how you feel. It's like the guy is stalking you. It really bothers me when somebody keeps staring at me. It's creepy, especially when it's the same sex. They watch every move you make.
Maybe you should just go up to him. Tell him you notice that he is watching you and ask why he is doing that?
Thanks man for understanding the situation. I would do that but I'm just going to act how I've been acting without the spitting of course. It's uncomfortable when someone stares at me for 2 and a half years.
Your neighbor keeps looking at you because you keep staring at him. He's probably told his friends about the straight neighbor who keeps staring at him and acting weird....and that neighbor is YOU. Just stop. Quit looking at him.
I don't look at him. Only that one time when I tried saying hi. How do I know he stares at me when I pass by? Well I glance and then glance again to confirm he is staring me down. Last night I only looked outside to confirm my intuition and sure enough I was right.
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- off a twenty-foot balcony, in the direction of the neighbor.
