My female friend offended me for telling me I don't have the perfect body (person, girls)
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I didn't even wanna talk about dating. She started asking me. I told here there was this one girl who I really used to be crazy over and showed her a pic. And she just kept going on and on about what I should be looking for in a women. She said that the girl has a nice body. But told me that there's lots of girls out there that are beautiful on the inside. Then told me, ''You don't have the perfect body, I'm just telling you straight up.'' And she has no idea that it even offended me that she said that. She just kept going on and on about the type of girl I need to be looking for. And I never even asked her for her advice.
What's this fuss? No one can insult you successfully unless you let them. No one has the perfect body. Stop comparing yourself to something that doesn't exist. BTW, tell your little "friend" she needs a lesson in manners.
What's this fuss? No one can insult you successfully unless you let them. No one has the perfect body. Stop comparing yourself to something that doesn't exist. BTW, tell your little "friend" she needs a lesson in manners.
Not suggesting you should, but I wonder how she'd react to a little brutal honesty? How would she react to a comment about, say, her weight, or her hair?
Again--not saying you should do that. My point is that she would most certainly react negatively, as folks who are the sort to casually point out what they look at as flaws in others tend to.
"My female friend offended me for telling me I don't have the perfect body"
No offense intended but I'm telling you straight up too, you don't have a perfect body. Nobody has a perfect body, there is no such thing possible, so don't be offended that your friend told you that you don't have a perfect body either. Your friend is not diplomatic and it sounds like she has some kind of hang up about what people's bodies look like but that is her problem, don't let it become your problem too. She probably wasn't deliberately trying to offend you. Let it go and forget about it.
But I've realized that no matter what you accomplish, people will always find your flaws and point them out.
People with bad manners will do this.
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