Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Non-Romantic Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 07-31-2017, 08:47 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
49,932 posts, read 59,927,052 times
Reputation: 98359

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by Zen88 View Post
I don't work there, it's someone else's job to collect carts.
Thanks for proving the point LOL

"It's someone else's job..." is the beginning of the end of civilization.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 07-31-2017, 08:48 AM
 
Location: Southern California
12,713 posts, read 15,529,606 times
Reputation: 35512
That's a good one. Also, you can observe how clean or dirty their car is (inside and out).
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-31-2017, 08:50 AM
 
10,501 posts, read 7,034,778 times
Reputation: 32344
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr_Geek View Post
That's a good one. Also, you can observe how clean or dirty their car is (inside and out).
Well, the shining exception to that is if they have kids. Before I had kids, my car would have passed inspection by an annoyed brigadier general. When we had three small children, our car would have been condemned by the EPA. Now that they are all adults with their own cars, I'm back to having a clean car once again.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-31-2017, 09:01 AM
 
Location: Western MA
2,556 posts, read 2,283,429 times
Reputation: 6882
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr_Geek View Post
That's a good one. Also, you can observe how clean or dirty their car is (inside and out).
Eh, I don't know about that. I always return my cart, will bring it all the way back into the store, if I have to, but my car isn't very clean. I have a 75# dog and a horse and am always hauling horse gear and whatever around. My car is also not garaged, so it ends up covered with dust and whatever. The cleanliness of my car is not a priority for me, but it affects no one but me, so I don't think you can really compare it to the cart return thing.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-31-2017, 09:06 AM
 
24,519 posts, read 10,846,327 times
Reputation: 46832
My truck gets washed when it needs it. Additional washings seem to scare it into submission - who wants to get traded in after what we have been through together? I can wear white shorts but you can write your memoirs on the hood.

As I do not frequent fast food joints I will make it a point to do so should I ever be in need of a permanent room mate again which I hopefully will not be.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-31-2017, 09:30 AM
 
Location: In the house we finally own!
922 posts, read 791,364 times
Reputation: 4587
Iused to work at a college that trained nurses. There was a break area outside with two large ashtrays and a couple of benches. 90% of these students would throw their cigarette butts on the ground next to the ashtray. This greatly disturbed me. If these folks were going to be healthcare workers and were too lazy to use the ashtray that was RIGHT THERE, what kind of nurses were they going to be?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-31-2017, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
1,659 posts, read 1,658,112 times
Reputation: 6149
I return my cart and put the dirty tray back but I hardly think that makes me some kind of saint. I'm not sure if it points towards character or more so to laziness. It is annoying but not the final judgment on someone's moral compass.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-31-2017, 09:38 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
49,932 posts, read 59,927,052 times
Reputation: 98359
Quote:
Originally Posted by 1986pacecar View Post
I return my cart and put the dirty tray back but I hardly think that makes me some kind of saint. I'm not sure if it points towards character or more so to laziness. It is annoying but not the final judgment on someone's moral compass.
It's not a "final" judgment, but when it comes to character actions definitely speak louder than words.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-31-2017, 09:43 AM
 
10,501 posts, read 7,034,778 times
Reputation: 32344
Quote:
Originally Posted by 1986pacecar View Post
I return my cart and put the dirty tray back but I hardly think that makes me some kind of saint. I'm not sure if it points towards character or more so to laziness. It is annoying but not the final judgment on someone's moral compass.
It doesn't make one a saint. It makes you someone who is, at a basic and fundamental level, considerate of others.

My grandfather used to say two things: "It's not what people say, but rather what people do, that matters" and "Character is what someone does when no one else is watching." Mind you, we are talking about able-bodied, functioning adults. Heck, even when I had three small children having meltdowns in the grocery store lot, it would have never occurred to me to just leave the shopping cart outside the receptacle. You put the kids in the car seat, then put the cart back.

Someone who would simply abandon a shopping cart in the lot isn't just lazy, but rather unthinking about the effect their action (Or lack thereof) could have for other people's convenience, not to mention property. It's the little things that reveal who you are, you know.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-31-2017, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
1,659 posts, read 1,658,112 times
Reputation: 6149
On a scale of 1 to 10 I would think that returning the cart would rank a 2 on the morality chart just behind holding the door open.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Non-Romantic Relationships
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top