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Old 02-10-2012, 07:24 AM
 
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I am leaning toward the father going overboard with the public humiliation and the act of violence using a gun.

Yes, the violence was toward the computer, but the message was more nuanced. "I can literally destroy the things you care about." I hate that he used a gun to do it, because handguns carry the imagery of violence against other humans. Shotgun, crossbow, not so much. It just seemed...threatening to me.

Also, I am not sure what the teen is being punished for. Blocking her parents from her FB? (seems like an ok act of preserving privacy) Complaining to her friends? Again, seem reasonable for a teen. Cursing? Hm.

Yes, the girl posted her *****-bomb on FB (which persumably only her friends could see) But her father posted a video that every human being with Internet access could see, and now it has gone viral, just like he had hoped. That seems more like an act of vindictiveness that has no place in a parent-child relationship.

The guy seemed to like the cigarette-smoking, weapon-toting, male dominating machismo of the whole scene a little too much if you asked me.

that's why i'm wondering if this was staged.
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Old 02-10-2012, 07:24 AM
 
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Bad bet. I'm not as good as betting on currencies. Off I go. But he definitely looks like the Rush Lumblah type
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Old 02-10-2012, 07:27 AM
 
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On the flip side, he could have learned some computer skills and in the process fried the hard drive and picked up accessory skills as to how to hide porn from the daughter's mom Instead, he shoots a masterpiece of electronic circuitry to prove his point. What a waste of Dadhood
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Old 02-10-2012, 08:18 AM
 
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He said he was "an IT guy"...
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Old 02-10-2012, 08:18 AM
 
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There's nothing macho about shooting a laptop. I'm betting dude was a fat, hairy guy from middle earth
It wasn't meant to be macho. It was meant to get a point across since words obviously didn't work with his ungrateful daughter.
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Old 02-10-2012, 08:20 AM
 
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I must have missed the part where he actually sat down and discussed the situation with his daughter in a calm and constructive way.
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Old 02-10-2012, 08:25 AM
 
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He had done that months before if you had listened to the video he said that more than once. She had been grounded already for doing the same thing.
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Old 02-10-2012, 08:28 AM
 
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There's NO excuse to using a gun on anything. If she were attached to her dog too much and wasting time, would Pappy shoot the dog??
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Old 02-10-2012, 08:33 AM
 
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Wow. A father who actually took control of the situation and did what he thought needed to be done. I'd probably shake the man's hand.

(Personally, I wouldn't have shot the fire out of it. I'd have had me a nice laptop that had just ben upgraded. But charging her a buck each for the hollow points was a nice touch.)
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Old 02-10-2012, 08:35 AM
 
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He said he was "an IT guy"...
Yeah who only managed to be able to see her posts because he had access to an account that could see her wall. Some real creative computer guy there :roll eyes:.
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