"You were right" from my teen in college (girls, girlfriend)

[hlsess]

I haven't posted in a long time- D has been in college with HS sweethear .she is a freshman and he is a sophomore- they 've had some rocky moments but overall a decent year-she called me late last night upset telling me her story- I told her it wasn't a good idea to go to college with him but we all know how they know everything.... I think they get along MOST of the time and..they were somewhere last night and he said " the first part of spring break will be more fun" - he is going with friends and she is going later in the week with a few mutual girlfriends etc...boys and girls who are all friends... anyway it upset her alot - I've always told her they were together more than they needed to be and that they needed a break- she said"you were right mom" (about going to the same school as him)I feel so sorry for her .. and it may not last ... she is at a very good LAC school and I really hope she will stay- I've told her that she needs to find some "new" friends and just move on-she said 'I know"- it is way too much $$ to transfer- any suggestiosn if you 've had this happen before?

I really think it was just one of those moments where he ticked her off but I hope its enough for her to realize that he is not the one for her....

[txtqueen]

Originally Posted by hlsess

I haven't posted in a long time- D has been in college with HS sweethear .she is a freshman and he is a sophomore- they 've had some rocky moments but overall a decent year-she called me late last night upset telling me her story- I told her it wasn't a good idea to go to college with him but we all know how they know everything.... I think they get along MOST of the time and..they were somewhere last night and he said " the first part of spring break will be more fun" - he is going with friends and she is going later in the week with a few mutual girlfriends etc...boys and girls who are all friends... anyway it upset her alot - I've always told her they were together more than they needed to be and that they needed a break- she said"you were right mom" (about going to the same school as him)I feel so sorry for her .. and it may not last ... she is at a very good LAC school and I really hope she will stay- I've told her that she needs to find some "new" friends and just move on-she said 'I know"- it is way too much $$ to transfer- any suggestiosn if you 've had this happen before?

I really think it was just one of those moments where he ticked her off but I hope its enough for her to realize that he is not the one for her....

I think you are right on SOME parts.
Yes, they sound like they spend a lot of time together but maybe her getting friends and spending less time with him and more time with friends will help her and his relationship out.

[~HecateWhisperCat~]

It won't last past this year most likely. What you are seeing are probably the cracks of it starting to show is all.