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I'm guessing you never talked to him in the past about his attitudes towards girls and why he might have an negative feelings about them.
You will probably get further if you ask him what has made him feel that way and then listen to what he tells you without judging his reasons. This will do you better than simply telling him it is horrible to think like that and that he "needs to" have respect for girls. Obviously, he is hurting from some kind of rejection.
For once I agree with you.
This is also why some are suggesting therapy if it is a deeper issue.
Sometimes figuring out why there is a problem could be key to solving the problem.
Last edited by Miss Blue; 05-24-2016 at 02:50 PM..
Reason: deleted the orphaned post and your answer.
You came here, presumably to leave with more info than when you arrived. I've no dog in this fight for your son. It doesn't matter how accurate these people here may display. They bring you what you already know. It doesn't matter how unpopular my words may be. I bring you a perspective you did not already have. Like I said, the ones in your immediate vicinity will keep you immobile. They are louder and exist in greater numbers. Watch out, please.
Bye.
Last edited by sylvianfisher; 05-24-2016 at 12:53 PM..
So I guess I can't elaborate about what happened anymore?
Well..It has been well over a month since you opened/started this Thread regarding you request for help..and haven't added anything since then..in fact this is only the 2nd post post..Hardly appears you feel quite so urgent for input..
I would appreciate updates..how things are going now..what have you decided to do? and so on. Discussion often does help..but IF you actually expect a bullet menu to deal with your issue..You will not get it without input..instead all you'll get is armchair judgements on what you initially asked..
If you do not respond to posts offering opinions..then just maybe this venue isn't helpful for you..Help only comes with communication..Maybe Social workers have stirred you into the right direction..
But your above #2 post doesn't seem like you're in a better place after over a month...Please seek help..Your son's future is at stake..help him..dwelling on your own hurt/confusion will never help him..outside influence on your son is something you cannot control BUT what you CAN control is a "CONSISTENT MESSAGE" and open door to him to talk about it..IF you close him out ( to protect yourself) He will become at the mercy of public sector/Social workers/Police/ School officials...Stand up for and with your child!! PLEEZE!!
No, I DID make another post about something he was involved in but it got deleted.
Basically my son got into some MGTOW stuff, I found lots of videos for it in the history on his computer.
Considering that you haven't elaborated beyond that, or provided anything actually related to Parenting, and actually provided a link, it seems your intent is to discuss that group. The Politics and Other Controversies forum is a more appropriate venue for that.
Considering that you haven't elaborated beyond that, or provided anything actually related to Parenting, and actually provided a link, it seems your intent is to discuss that group. The Politics and Other Controversies forum is a more appropriate venue for that.
Moderator cut: delete What, specifically do you want to know?
Last edited by Miss Blue; 05-26-2016 at 11:14 AM..
Reason: Stop discussing mod actions. Use dm if you question moderation
Moderator cut: orphaned post What, specifically do you want to know?
Personally I lost interest so I don't want additional information. I was simply providing information I thought you might want. Others upthread provided responses and asked questions which you more or less ignored so you could post a link to a blog. When you aren't an active participant in a thread you started (outside of providing links to controversial sites), people tend to make assumptions regarding your intent.
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