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Old 08-12-2017, 05:59 PM
 
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I don't have any kids but my sister is very skeptical about letting her son stay the night at other peoples house.

I remember when I was a kid, I was very upset I never got to have a sleepover. Friends could come over but they couldn't stay long.

But on another note, I was able to go to a lot of sleepovers.

Are they still a thing?
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Old 08-12-2017, 06:44 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Definitely!

I have an 8th-grader, and his two best friends end up sleeping over at our house 1 or 2 nights per week.

They trade off and sleep at each others' houses depending on which parents drove them to whatever sporting event they were doing, etc.
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Old 08-12-2017, 07:05 PM
 
Location: Florida
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My kids could do sleepovers at the homes of people we knew well when they were about 10. We didn't let them sleep over at homes of people we did not know. My daughter is 14 and she isn't a huge fan of going to other people's houses to sleep. She's done a handful of sleepovers but they're not her favorite thing. She likes having friends sleep over at our house, though, and does it maybe monthly or so. My son is 16 and he doesn't really sleep at friends' houses just for the sake of having a sleepover, but he does travel frequently for his main hobby and sometimes it's with other families who we've known for a few years. More often, other people send their teens with him and my husband (he's self-employed and is more able to take time off to travel than most of these friends' parents), so when that happens, those young men sleep over at our house. He also worked at a day camp about 3 hours away for two weeks this summer and he and a few of the other teen counselors stayed at the director's house (who also has a teenage boy). He had a blast (and the mom/director survived the assault of five teenage boys eating her food and getting into whatever shenanigans they got into, LOL).
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Old 08-12-2017, 09:56 PM
 
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Yes, very much a thing. My boys don't really do sleepovers, but my daughter does- as much as possible. I have only let her sleep over if I've met the parents and know where the house is/have been there.
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Old 08-13-2017, 09:56 AM
 
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I let my daughter spend the night with one friend and only because both parents are doctors. I really hope she doesn't ask me about sleepovers with any new friends because the answer will be no.
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Old 08-13-2017, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I really hope she doesn't ask me about sleepovers with any new friends because the answer will be no.
Why?
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Old 08-13-2017, 10:09 AM
 
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I think they're still a thing, but I don't blame parents who say "no" to sleepovers or only allow kids to spend the night at a house where they know the family extremely well.

I have a friend who stopped allowing her son to do sleepovers because she got tired of dealing with a cranky kid who needed two days re-adjusting from lack of sleep.
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Old 08-13-2017, 04:19 PM
 
Location: The Midwest
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Yes, thankfully! Sleepovers are among some of my best childhood memories, so I'm glad my kids are able to experiene them as well.
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Old 08-13-2017, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Marquette, Mich
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Absolutely! My son has a group of friends that do sleepovers a couple of times a month. They've been doing it for years. I love having them over, even though the smell of Mtn Dew, Doritos, and teenage boy is gross. My daughter does sleepovers, but not as often.
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Old 08-13-2017, 07:03 PM
 
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Why?

Too many kids here run around doing whatever they want while their parents are working. I don't want my daughter hanging out with bad kids or parents.
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