Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Economics > Personal Finance
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
 
Old 05-02-2016, 02:35 PM
 
390 posts, read 366,678 times
Reputation: 589

Advertisements

Hi everyone,
My wife and I are now finally done with school/training and fortunate to being entering a period of seemingly reasonable stability (at least relative to our past). Accordingly, we're trying to get everything lined up and do some long-term planning (house, retirement, things to think about as we look towards having kids and possible helping her parents immigrate and covering their expenses). I suppose by many standards we are in pretty good financial shape (zero debt minus a car we're paying off, solid salaries, saving > ~$1500/month). I'm nonetheless finding the process of sorting through all this somewhat overwhelming. Simple things like "Am I being reasonable about what kind of house we can buy, is it realistic to bring her parents over, how should we prioritize saving for a down payment vs. other savings, etc., how the heck I should be sorting out the bajillion options offered through our 401ks to make sure we're making the best decisions there, etc." So basically, I feel I can't manage my own life and want someone to help or at least sign off that we aren't about to do something insane like buy a house we can't afford given our other priorities

I'm wondering if anyone could:
A) Point me to written resources on this. The web is full of junk (from what I've seen). A good book would do wonders, but a bad book could do more harm than good so I'm hoping to get recommendations. This is sad, but at 32 years old I still feel like I need a primer on being a grown up.
B) How does one go about finding a good financial planner? I know to look for fee-only. Most I'm finding to fall much more on the "stock advising" side than personal finance issues like I raised above. Not that I'm against stock advice, but its not really my main concern at the moment (or at least not our only one). Frankly, I feel like I need just a ~2 hour consultation/lesson with someone who understands this stuff way better than I do.

Appreciate any suggestions you can offer! We're both coming from backgrounds/families where there was minimal discussion of money (largely because there wasn't any).
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 05-02-2016, 07:07 PM
 
388 posts, read 474,296 times
Reputation: 1006
I think the absolute best book on personal finances is "Making the Most of Your Money Now" by Quinn.

Very comprehensive and advice is rock solid. AARP publishes articles by her.

You can get the book at the library.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-02-2016, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Florida
6,627 posts, read 7,346,527 times
Reputation: 8186
Try a CPA that also has the AICPA certification for financial planning.
You do not want someone to help with investments but someone to tell you how to plan your financial life. Finding a good planer is a very good idea.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-03-2016, 08:40 PM
 
37,315 posts, read 59,878,910 times
Reputation: 25341
Lots of books on investing and many of them have difference of opinion as to specifics

Might consider reading articles at site called AssetBuilder---guy who started it is SCOTT Burns, an MIT grad who was investment writer for Dallas Morning News (my local paper) for decades. Has written several investing books, some with Larry Swedroe who is probably better known that Burns. There are years of articles from his past paper blog and this new site. He is one of original partners for company that helps people invest in DFA funds (mainly)...run several different portfolios designed to fit risk profiles...the returns for past years are available on site for anyone to see...not recommending that company--
But the site has useful info and they are pretty transparent about how they invest people's money--not too complicated for choice...

And Burns has several portfolios he designed years ago--Couch Potato, Margarita, 5 speed--they use Vanguard funds for most part...
He is early believer in low cost funds, not paying high fees for managed funds that don't really provide any more success than wide spectrum index funds. Sort of Bogle head but his articles also touch on other aspects of financial life--buying home, college costs, annuities...

Some people recommend William Bernsteins 4 Pillars of Investing Wisdom and John Bogle's books and there is Boglehead site you can read w/o joining--lots of good info there from people who believe in low-cost investing, buy and hold for long-term...
If you want to ask question you need to join but don't think you get any spam from giving your email...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-03-2016, 08:52 PM
 
37,315 posts, read 59,878,910 times
Reputation: 25341
Quote:
Originally Posted by rjm1cc View Post
Try a CPA that also has the AICPA certification for financial planning.
You do not want someone to help with investments but someone to tell you how to plan your financial life. Finding a good planer is a very good idea.
The financial advisor we use now is a CPA, partner in the firm that did our business and personal taxes for 30 yrs probably. He runs their wealth management division and is a CFP...
My husband had income from a job but also had an S-Corp for years and over about the last 10 yrs it brought in quite bit of money. It was very helpful to have someone who had good tax understanding and knowledge about estate planning as we were getting older and moving toward retirement. I guess it depends on the firm as to whether a fee-only or % of assets under management would be the payment arrangement.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-04-2016, 10:27 AM
 
390 posts, read 366,678 times
Reputation: 589
Thank you for all the responses so far! We'll definitely be looking for a fee-only CPA...our assets are minimal at present, so not sure someone would even be willing to take us on. Investing is really only part of the equation though - any recommendations on things like home ownership, planning for those costs, etc.?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-04-2016, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Florida
6,627 posts, read 7,346,527 times
Reputation: 8186
Quote:
Originally Posted by JO783 View Post
Thank you for all the responses so far! We'll definitely be looking for a fee-only CPA...our assets are minimal at present, so not sure someone would even be willing to take us on. Investing is really only part of the equation though - any recommendations on things like home ownership, planning for those costs, etc.?
CPA's normally work on an hourly basis or a fix fee basis. You note that your assets are minimal. That is ok, you do not need someone that is going to invest your money and take a fee for it. You need someone to map out a financial road map for your life. Once you get some ideas you can probably go on without any hand holding for a few years and then check back.

I think you have a good handle on your circumstances and a few meetings with a professional planner will be very beneficial in giving you the confidence that you know what your are doing.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-05-2016, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Santa Rosa
486 posts, read 832,491 times
Reputation: 497
https://www.bogleheads.org/wiki/Main_Page

Hard to beat the bogleheads wiki for both personal finance and investment advice.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Economics > Personal Finance

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 03:04 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top