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Old 10-15-2008, 09:24 PM
 
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I am an asian lady, (not east asian, chinese, korean or japanese, neither pacific islander) in short nothing that follows into the definition of an asian race ethnicites in US. I have more of alaskan native look, yet I am short as most asian people are.
I ve been asked out three times by different black males in Pgh, I don't get what's behind this attraction...Pittsburgh is not as diverse as DC or LA, and I haven't seen any black men/asian women couples. Does anybody has an answer of why this is happening??? Men/women of any ethnicity your input will be highly appreciated!!!! needless to say most black girls can't stand me , they don't get that I don't need their men, 'cause I know I 'll only date & marry the man that was brought up in the same society as i was. sure it s not cool to reject anyone, but you can't change the way you were raised.

 
Old 10-15-2008, 09:30 PM
 
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You're the only non black/white person in Pittsburgh. That makes them want you more.
 
Old 10-15-2008, 11:10 PM
 
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I am an asian lady, (not east asian, chinese, korean or japanese, neither pacific islander) in short nothing that follows into the definition of an asian race ethnicites in US. I have more of alaskan native look, yet I am short as most asian people are.
I ve been asked out three times by different black males in Pgh, I don't get what's behind this attraction...Pittsburgh is not as diverse as DC or LA, and I haven't seen any black men/asian women couples. Does anybody has an answer of why this is happening??? Men/women of any ethnicity your input will be highly appreciated!!!! needless to say most black girls can't stand me , they don't get that I don't need their men, 'cause I know I 'll only date & marry the man that was brought up in the same society as i was. sure it s not cool to reject anyone, but you can't change the way you were raised.
Hate to burst your bubble, but all black men are not interested in dating or marrying you either.
 
Old 10-15-2008, 11:21 PM
 
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Not all black women are concened about interacial couples, you should think of yourself as an attractive female, not just an asian women who black men want to date. Im a of a mixed background. White, Black, Asian. I have been asked out by many races, because I look good.
 
Old 10-16-2008, 12:48 AM
 
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but you can't change the way you were raised.
Why is that? So, no child ever overcomes poor parenting, and no child of good parents ever turns out badly? The only one responsible for your choices is you.

Incidentally, maybe you're being hit on because they find you attractive, not solely because you're Asian.

Maybe it's just your facial features: Asian Women & African American Men | Asian American Poll | GoldSea

-m
 
Old 10-16-2008, 12:59 AM
 
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I'm sorry...I have to laugh that this is even a thread. As if Black men in Pittsburgh have some sort of different gene that makes them attracted to Asian women? Come on...
 
Old 10-16-2008, 05:52 AM
 
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Hate to burst your bubble, but all black men are not interested in dating or marrying you either.
U know that's exactly why I prefer not to get involved with them,the ones that I ve met didn't have any serious intentions. not that it bothers me, I don't care because they are not my type of men anyway.
 
Old 10-16-2008, 06:58 AM
 
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I am an asian lady, (not east asian, chinese, korean or japanese, neither pacific islander) in short nothing that follows into the definition of an asian race ethnicites in US. I have more of alaskan native look, yet I am short as most asian people are.
I ve been asked out three times by different black males in Pgh, I don't get what's behind this attraction...Pittsburgh is not as diverse as DC or LA, and I haven't seen any black men/asian women couples. Does anybody has an answer of why this is happening??? Men/women of any ethnicity your input will be highly appreciated!!!! needless to say most black girls can't stand me , they don't get that I don't need their men, 'cause I know I 'll only date & marry the man that was brought up in the same society as i was. sure it s not cool to reject anyone, but you can't change the way you were raised.


Well, I would have to say I am a black male and I share this attraction too. For the most part I love to meet new people. Its really nothing different from any other races. Did you ever think that black men find you attractive?? IIt's like how everyone wants the new girl in school. What's the problem?? Does Asian women date in their own race?? I've always wonder that. As for social socities some may share the same as you.You would never know until you date the big bad black guy
 
Old 10-16-2008, 07:33 AM
 
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I'm sorry...I have to laugh that this is even a thread. As if Black men in Pittsburgh have some sort of different gene that makes them attracted to Asian women? Come on...
i don't know, may be they do. and since I had the same question you did I started the thread.
 
Old 10-16-2008, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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Wow this is a provacative thread, I have no idea why this would happen though. I haven't notice a black man and asian woman couples, but it seems like I see a lot of white woman black man couples, but I never see it the other way around. Has anyone ever noticed this like I do?
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