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Old 01-11-2009, 10:31 PM
 
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good grief lady whats wrong if some one finds you attractive . dont demonize us because we do . i hate the fact that you are the one making it look so taboo. if it was a white guy you probably wouldnt even care . you would probably welcome it . but no if black - get back dont believe every negative sterotype you hear . You will have black men and probably any other men attracted to you so deal with it and stop being tripped out get over your self

 
Old 02-06-2009, 05:30 PM
 
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I think its the same reason black guys like white girls, but anyway pittsburgh has alot of interracial couples. My last girlfriend was black.
 
Old 02-06-2009, 08:06 PM
 
Location: RVA
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Why is this in the Pittsburgh forum? Shouldn't it be over in Identity Politics?
 
Old 02-07-2009, 05:35 AM
 
Location: New Kensington (Parnassus) ,Pa
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I am an asian lady, (not east asian, chinese, korean or japanese, neither pacific islander) in short nothing that follows into the definition of an asian race ethnicites in US. I have more of alaskan native look, yet I am short as most asian people are.
I ve been asked out three times by different black males in Pgh, I don't get what's behind this attraction...Pittsburgh is not as diverse as DC or LA, and I haven't seen any black men/asian women couples. Does anybody has an answer of why this is happening??? Men/women of any ethnicity your input will be highly appreciated!!!! needless to say most black girls can't stand me , they don't get that I don't need their men, 'cause I know I 'll only date & marry the man that was brought up in the same society as i was. sure it s not cool to reject anyone, but you can't change the way you were raised.
We are all programed at a very young age ,let's say hard wired.This is very difficult to change,don't ask me why.I guess we become accustom to a certain way of life.For instance,I would feel very uncomfortable living in an upper class neigborhood or living in da hood with the brothers,Understand???
 
Old 02-07-2009, 05:53 AM
 
Location: New Kensington (Parnassus) ,Pa
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Everyone,This is a much more complex issue than race alone.This has to do with what this person wants in life. I don't know whats with some black guys,but when I was into the bar scene, It seemed the brothers were always hitting on white woman,especially the good looking ones.Some didn't even care if she was with a guy. I can't answer for Asian woman and black guys in this area,because there just don't seem to be many Asian woman around.I don't know, maybe the blacks that asked her out were not to her liking,not her class of people,you know, ghetto variety.
 
Old 02-27-2009, 09:35 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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I think that this forum is strange in itself for one simple reason...Pittsburgh is predominatly comprised of two races black and white and anyone else including biracial individuals are considered attractive by most standards. I have traveled quite a bit and it seems to me that many other races especially deep rooted immigrants tend to turn away from American blacks (even many African women) due to media and other false preceptions seen through the media. Also what caught my attention was the fact that you stated that you are shapely, do you realize that is a trait that attracts many men but blackmen in particuliar. If it really bothers you that you are being "hit on" by blackmen lose the butt and make yourself look as plain as possible. I bet that you won't be bother as much by blackmen but some white guys/girls will pick up the slack My advice to you is to enjoy and cherish the natural beauty that you have been blessed with and don't whine about who is trying to "get with you" Natural beauty has it's time limitations so don't waste it!
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