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Please don't tell adult people what to think and feel.
This is a public forum. You opened the door for getting feedback when you posted. You've expressed how you think and feel, and so the rest of us get to weigh in on it. That's what public forums are about. If you cannot handle being told that what you engaged in isn't normal perhaps you shouldn't be sharing that information.
By the way, I'm in no way blaming you for what happened. I'm blaming the adult you were with.
But you're an adult now and your thinking is way off about this. As an aside, I hope you don't have kids.
For starters, not all 13 year old boys have reached puberty as some develop much later.
Regardless, just because a child can physically have sex at a certain age, does not mean they are mentally/emotionally ready to do so.
You thinking "it is generally accepted that older women and young men situations weren't a bid deal" is stretching things.
For starters, it is not as accepted as older men with younger women. Regardless, this is a young boy, not a man.
Would you think it was ok for an adult man to have sex with a 13 year old girl if they took precautions not to get pregnant
Also, if you had a 13 year old boy, would you want an adult woman having sex with your son?
So yes, she is a pedophile in our society and by most peoples moral compasses.
Lastly, what does your last comment mean?
Do you think what the teacher did was sick, or that it is sick to get a decade in prison for having sex with their student?
The men in my family have always been quite precocious, so I cannot imagine having a serious problem with my son being with an older woman. His mother likely would, I will admit.
The woman in question is not a pedophile, and, yes, I think getting ten years for such a harmless act is sick.
If I am not good at defining things, maybe you can define the word "normal" for us.
You asked me a question, what is normal parent?
well, a definition of
Pedophile is a person who has a sexual interest in children.
Do you deny that is the definition of a pedophile?
Do you think any normal parents would want a pedophile of either gender to be anywhere near their children?
I see you are not a very good debater. You accuse me of not good at defining things, yet you have not offered any counterargument.
I think you are just a lazy debater.
Pedophyl is a person who attrackted to kids before puberty. In this case the kid has "how 13 years old can have body like this". Therefore I guess he did not look like a child before puberty.
The men in my family have always been quite precocious, so I cannot imagine having a serious problem with my son being with an older woman. His mother likely would, I will admit.
The woman in question is not a pedophile, and, yes, I think getting ten years for such a harmless act is sick.
Pedophyl is a person who attrackted to kids before puberty. In this case the kid has "how 13 years old can have body like this". Therefore I guess he did not look like a child before puberty.
That is not the definition
pedophile
1.
an adult who is sexually attracted to young children.
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