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Here you go. This is one of the issues no one has considered. These programs were meant to HELP people work their way out of poverty. They were not meant for people to live off of perpetually.
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Thats the way it is in NY... Speak out against it you are heartless. That is the problem with liberal democrats. The plantation is a real thing and it is not exclusive to one race or another. You propose eliminating or toppling anything? You are a cruel cold hearted prick.
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The stupid have hurt before. Many of the stupid became criminals and filled the prisons. Many of the stupid had alot of babies when they shouldn't have had any. This has been going on long before welfare got really big. I think one of the biggest problems is that nowadays there is no shame in having a bunch of kids out of wedlock.
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IF you do shame, You are "racist" "misogynist" for wanting to control a woman's reproductive system.
No. Its true. Its a common sense thing... You don't breed what you can't feed... Dudes aren't excluded. Theres no reason to go raw dogging everything with a pulse. Period.
Race is the least important factor. Poverty is poverty. Poor life choices and stupid does not discriminate. Its equal opportunity to failure.
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Back in the old days, if you got pregnant out of wedlock, it was a big scandal. You had to get married. In many cases, the marriage didn't work out and then things got nasty after that. Nowadays, we have shows like The Maury Show. There are women going on the show trying to find out who the father of their children are. When there are some women going on the show multiple times hearing "You Are Not The Father", there should be alot of shame.
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No way... Shaming is mean. Getting married is a conservative idea. The hell is wrong with you troglodytes wanting to return to the 50s/60s where family remained in tact and was not broken up with incentives and rewards for poor life choices and behaviors?
I hear it from boomers that had cousins or friends that got pregnant. The girls parents, shipped the pregnant chick off to live with relatives far far away for shaming the family. AND often times the child was put up for adoption or went to a family member who had trouble having a kid... It was swept under the rug.
Today? Pfft. Move in with mommy and daddy play house with the boyfriend. Live in the basement convert another room into the kids room...
We are rewarding bad behavior... And it isn't exclusive to any race...
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I think about this. Many of the criminals from yesteryear were likely born into broken homes and to parents who couldn't raise them properly.
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And they repeated living what they learned.
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This whole idea of "my kid can do no wrong" does not help. I agree with that. It also does not help if the kid grows up in a home and an environment full of strife and violence. What every child needs is a home that is orderly, stable, with discipline, with love, with the kid being taught what is right. A kid should be held accountable.
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Discipline. I had the fear of Gods wrath from my father. He'd beat the crap out of me when I screwed up. Abuse? Nah. I thank him from his grave for being so hard on me. If he wasn't so hard on me, I'd probably be moved in with my mother and have her pay my bills because Boohoo life and adulting is hard.
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Alot of kids grow up in homes where they are abused and not loved. Many kids are viewed as nothing more than a paycheck, or a future meal ticket in some cases (alot of athletes are the best example of this). In many cases, the kids are fathered by several different men, and the way the kids are treated are based on "I'm mad at my ex, so I'll take it out on my ex's kid".
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Yes. There is the push for the Pro Sports dream. Again this is not exclusive to one race or another.
I crack up at dudes who live their life through their kids. It is revealing who was a bench warmer in highschool and who actually played. Ever want to see who warmed the bench or was 2nd or 3rd string when they played ball in highschool? Look at the screaming father finding fault in every thing the kid does and constantly bash them for being an embarrassment or disappointment...
True story. That's how you find out. Same as the drunken idiot screaming at a TV watching a game at a bar...
Anyways, yes they will push kids to excel in sports and go on to get a college scholarship free ride, then try to recruit for the pro ball league. That kid is eating breathing living football. Hockey. Soccer. Whatever sport it is.
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I know a kid who was like this. He was a kid that bullied me alot. He stole from me, he hung out with other criminal kids, who also bullied me. He got busted for burglary as a teen. A kid who had several video game systems and was given alot of stuff, and he turned into a criminal. He did things that I would not dare do.
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Yup because he could get away with it and was never put in check.
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I also know kids who grew up in some crappy environments who ended up doing time. I lived around alot of rednecks during middle school and high school. Many of them were as scary of the hood rat wannabes. This is why I say redneck culture and ghetto culture are more similar than either side would like to believe. Many kids got used to consequences and keep committing crimes over and over and become criminal adults. Alot of criminals in the ghetto likely got used to the idea of "I'll likely go to prison, so whatever". Going to prison is suppose to be considered something shameful, something scary, something that wastes your youth. However, there are many who look at prison as "cool", as a badge of honor. When that kind of mentality is looming, prison time won't scare said person.
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Sort of. I will tell you right now I have no shame in being called a redneck for growing up in the sticks, owning lifted trucks etc. Most others that were getting popped weren't getting popped for tearing ass down a dirt road in a truck or on a dirtbike... The ones getting popped were growing pot on the edge of a farmers cornfield out of view from the farmer unless he patrolled his property... Usually close to a stream.
I worked for what I had, Others grew pot to sell to get what they wanted. After not getting caught, they got bolder and bolder.
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Said kid should have either been put in prison or sent to rehab.
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My cousin? Nah. He deserved death. Put a knife to my aunts throat when she refused to give him money at a family function in the kitchen. I damn near beat his ass to death that day. I walked in to grab a glass of ice tea or something and there he was holding her by her throat against a wall her feet dangling above the floor and a butchers knife in his right hand shouting he'd kill her if she wouldn't give him any money.
I was the bad guy afterwards though.... Riiiggghhhtttt.... Limo liberal aunt and uncle that were feeble and would enable the punk.
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That is basically the story in the ghetto. Alot of fatherless kids and the mothers can't seem to raise the kids properly. Anyone who says "I don't need a man" is being neglectful of the kids. The kids need both father and mother there.
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Oh you sexist misogynist troglodyte! Lol j/k No seriously you say that and the feminists with their BS ideals will be in shortly to say why you're wrong and closed minded and how they can do just a fine job of raising a child all on her own...
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When you mentioned pain killers, the first thing I thought of was Kentucky or West Virginia. Pills are an epidemic in Appalachia and some other rural areas. We all need good parents. This is why. The parents in this case abused the system. We need things like disability benefits, we don't need abuse of it.
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Nope. NY tries to brush that chit under the rug as best they can. I've seen first hand how bad it is with opioids/prescription narcotics and again... It isn't exclusive to rednecks in Appalachia...
Liberals will sit there and say, Oh sure Woe is whitey in Appalachia nobody cared for blacks in the 80s with crack in the ghetto...
That's being petty and focusing on race. Race is a petty thing to focus on. I'll explain what I mean by that later.
Where I grew up and lived a majority of my life, the majority of the county was rural. There was an urban/city like area in the county. It wasn't bad bad like Detroit, NYC, or Chicago, but it was loaded with violent crime... Poverty. Section 8 high rise. The works. All the scum resided there.
Oxys, Hydros, Perks etc were popular house party drugs when I was a teenager. So was pot...
I would throw parties out in the woods. Yeah we drank illegally. But nobody died. And no dope was allowed. I would physically remove anyone with dope. I drew the line with dope. I'd steal their stash of whatever they had and throw it in the bon fire. They make a threat to get someone to come back and beat me kill me whatever? I pummeled the hell out of them and tied or chained their ass to a tree. Have truck Tow rope/Tow Chain and a lock? Beat the brakes off the dude and drag him back to a tree prop him up and lock him tight against the tree. Toss the dope in the fire then throw a beer in their face while they were going off about coming back with a big brother an older cousin friends whatever tell them you need to cool off let me help ya...
They would get their pills from those that lived in the high rise who wanted money and were on disability or from a dealer on credit/consignment.
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Whoa. I went to college, graduated, had trouble getting work, finally got a good job, got laid off a few years later, and now I'm working a low-paying part time job where I'm basically underemployed. I understand we need a safety net so that if one does fall, they don't have a hard fall and they can get back up again. This is abuse though. And furthermore, where I live, in Georgia, benefits aren't very big here. When I got laid off I only got unemployment benefits for 3 months. After that, no more. 60 k in benefits for them, and the best paying job I ever had paid 40,000 per year. If I didn't live with my parents, I would be in even worse shape.
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That's the problem, you can thank those that abuse the system as for why you can not legitimately qualify for a helping hand. Florida is the same way with benefits. You do not get unemployment for long and it is not much. NY its handed out like candy if you got laid off...
That's why I am vehemently against social safety nets... It would hurt you, but who it hurts most! Abusers that use said system as a career.
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I am in someone's corner if they are willing to work and are not trying to abuse the system. I know what it's like to struggle to get a job. What I don't get is how abusing the system and being lazy pays more than trying your best and struggling.
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Because bleeding heart liberal programs that are ripe for abuse with little oversight thats why.
It sounds insane to some. Most will think I am making this crap up. No. I'm not. Thats why I could not stand living in NY knowing my tax dollars were floating bums and my property value was artificially inflated to justify higher property taxes. Nah I know the game I wont play it, IF I do I will beat it. And beat it I did.
We are the only country that punishes people for taking care of their property with higher taxes. Meanwhile slums trailer parks etc can look like 3rd wold chitholes and be rewarded with low taxes, but a high reliance on social services/programs.
Funny how that works huh? Ideally you'd want to tax the hell out of a slumlord with graffiti and garbage, and out of a hillbilly with a camaro/mustang lawn ornament. They are the ones who are taxed the least.
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Stupidity and graft knows no color. I know White kids that I went to school with who got busted for drugs, who have had kids out of wedlock, dropped out of school, doing really stupid stuff. I know one person I went to high school with who committed murder. White person who murdered another White person. This kid had so much promise when he was in high school and he turned into a criminal later in life.
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That's why focusing on race as a primary cause for concern is petty and significantly flawed. This is an American Problem. NOT a Black problem. Not a Latino problem. Not a White problem. Its a problem.
If liberals did not focus on race, or make it about race, you will see it yourself, OH whites don't really care they just like to use blacks as a told ya so or to condemn because racism.
Wrong.
It is not exclusive to race. However, You can not help the demographics of Chicago. Nor can I. Be honest and tell it like it is. It is a cultural problem of idolizing a thug behavior. IT is exclusive to Cities. Again I grew up in the sticks where literally everyone I knew owned ARs. AKs. SKS. Shotguns, the works. Yet... No drive bys. No shooting randomly. You do not see city problems out in the country side. A city is as diverse as it can get typically... You will see all walks of life co-existing every single day in every city in America. However there are the whole Little Italy, Little China, Little Korea, etc etc etc.
Liberals need to knock the chit off with focusing on race or being so quick to declare racism... It takes away from the legitimacy of the problem, the cause of the problem. It is a perpetual problem of endorsing and rewarding stupidity. They lack the honesty and integrity to examine where how and why they went wrong with their cities. They have no shame. They use the deaths in Chicago as statistics for further gun control. Regardless what others think of that woman from the NRA Dana Loesch was dead on. Oh sure. Get worked up for the crying white mothers following parkland, meanwhile ignore the crying black mothers in Chicago Baltimore etc who are burying that many in a night! She was right. She exposes the hypocrisy of liberals who seek to use statistics for furthering an agenda. Suburban white soccer moms are ratings gold for the media.
Yet silence or scoff when it is mentioned how many are being slaughtered in a night over a weekend in Chicago and when it comes up as a discussion, you dare step out of line, you dare point something out, you dare defy towing the liberal social engineering line, You are a racist. A misogynist. A bigot. You don't really care. You hateful close minded conservatard. And how dare you insist people be responsible for their safety and security! That defies gun control. Give them up for the childrunz! How can you say no to the childrunz!?
Easy.
Because it is not for the kids. Thats a whole nother issue in of itself.
I do however crack up when the nanny staters come forward and blame implements... NOT the actions of the individual. They lack the integrity to honestly analyze WHY things are happening. Just how. And what implements were used. And focus on that. Meanwhile things will carry on business as usual.
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What do we do?
Bring in more police patrols?
Stop rewarding bad behavior?
Or continue the liberal mantra of floating bums and rewarding poor choices and poor behaviors.
I can tell you one thing... The amount of repeat offenders that do not get appropriate sentences really does not help the situation... Someone who is a violent offender a violent felon getting probation on a plea deal needs to stop. Do the crime? Do the time.
Hate to say it here, but the people in Chicago need to want to fix this problem where big government has failed them. They want the BS to stop?
Form a militia and handle it once and for all. Cops wont patrol those areas? Cops are crooked racist trigger happy? Start putting up Citizen patrols where government leaves the door wide open and handle it. Snitch. Protect one another. Purge the criminal element out via force or via traditional avenues with police. They have to want legitimately want to fix their city. And stop calling for government to fix it for them. Nothing government has ever done has ever improved things in an area. At least in NY... The more government we got. The more taxes we got. The longer it took to get things done The more state pensions etc etc to fund... And results?
Lets say If I worked as efficiently as NYS I would be broke owing money to customers left and right with a bad customer satisfaction score...
I would never ask the government to come in and solve my problems. I would gather up enough people fed up and handle it our selves. Tell the gov you have 1 week to do your job or I will do it for you. And you wont like how I do business. That's what it would need to fix Chicago. Fix Baltimore. Fix Los Angeles. Fix Dallas/Austin/Houston. etc.