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Old 03-15-2013, 02:05 PM
 
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I have one question to ask all the posters here.

What kind of decent, intellegent woman would post a situation like this on a forum for strangers to read?
why does it matter? We don't know who she is. And basically, that's pretty much the purpose of a message board.

 
Old 03-15-2013, 02:24 PM
 
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I'm out... enough BS for me to go.
 
Old 03-15-2013, 02:42 PM
 
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Just another question,

What does her being a virgin in her 40s have to do with this? Bragging or complaining?
 
Old 03-15-2013, 02:55 PM
 
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mm-hmm. Whether you did or didn't, your actions (refusing the spermicide, which would be non-abortive; refusing to get plan b, which prevents ovulation and so is also non-abortive; not getting something like a copper iud before this happened which would also have been non-abortive) are entirely consistent with someone who's trying to force a man into an pregnancy he doesn't want. Occam's razor says he'll think you sabotaged the condoms. Even if he goes and gets the vasectomy and it turns out you're not pregnant you have probably fatally damaged any chance of having a trusting, lifelong marriage through your actions here.

Then again, yikes. That's a little background here you didn't share.
yes the fool has told me it's over! I left! I got all my things! I am at my sister's house for now!

I can't believe you all think alike! He said while i am packing my things that he can't believe i won't do anything to correct the mistake!


I told him you act like you are sure i will get pregnant from that 1 night!!! He is a fu-cking AS-S-HOLE! I can't believe he will do this to me!!!

And before i married him he said most guys will jump at the chance knowing i'm a virgin, to let me move in with them then just kick me out after!!

When the hypocrite did exactly the same thing!! And this is the same hypocrite that told me for him marriage is forever!!!

I did not even cry! The hypocrite evil douchebag does not deserve it!

I also hope you all S-T-F-U since oh yeah you're ALL right! Congrats!!
 
Old 03-15-2013, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You can't believe he would do this to you when you LIED about who you are (someone who is NOT OK with him not wanting a baby)?

I find it amazing that you are stopping to post on C-D in the middle of a crisis.
 
Old 03-15-2013, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Ostend,Belgium....
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I've read some old posts from the OP..interesting.... she's only known this guy a few months, recently married him...(they met, broke up, he sends ultimatum type email so she quick marries him)
after being divorced 16 years, he still hadn't dealt with his feelings about the whole divorce(because she left him probably/maybe) then all of the sudden he's madly in love and wants to get married right away..sounds controlling on his part...he never sees his son..why is that? ..strange things going on there.
 
Old 03-15-2013, 03:05 PM
 
Location: Ostend,Belgium....
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You guys don't even know eachother long enough!..you waited all those years to lose your virginity to this guy??? Oh boy...soap opera...
 
Old 03-15-2013, 03:41 PM
 
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I just took plan B. Generic costs almost $50. wow. And I would never forgive the as-shole for making me do it. I cried while driving there. I hope I did not conceive. Just want to make sure I will have no memory of the BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE! I don't want to do it but I've no choice.
 
Old 03-15-2013, 03:42 PM
 
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I also hope you all S-T-F-U since oh yeah you're ALL right! Congrats!!
Best wishes to you, too. You've earned them.
 
Old 03-15-2013, 03:43 PM
 
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You guys don't even know eachother long enough!..you waited all those years to lose your virginity to this guy??? Oh boy...soap opera...
There's a reason why but I don't want to talk about it. In fact the jerk even use that as threat. He thought I would beg him or I would stay with him. I was so disgusted by him. I can't believe this.
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