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Old 07-06-2017, 03:18 PM
 
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I feel like men should be policing other men.

Not women handing out pity Fs.
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Old 07-06-2017, 03:33 PM
 
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I feel like men should be policing other men.

Not women handing out pity Fs.
I feel like if I ever become a dating coach it would be for women only. If women become better at their game it will force men to stop their bull and step up. Maybe less incel types would exist.
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Old 07-06-2017, 05:41 PM
 
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Yes but this discussion is about men.
It shouldn't stop you from discussing women. And believe me many women like men have unreasonably high standards.
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Old 07-06-2017, 05:42 PM
 
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I feel like if I ever become a dating coach it would be for women only. If women become better at their game it will force men to stop their bull and step up. Maybe less incel types would exist.
Nope, there's internet porn now. As long as the incels don't hurt no one like rodger did who cares?
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Old 07-06-2017, 05:44 PM
 
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It shouldn't stop you from discussing women. And believe me many women like men have unreasonably high standards.
Ok but I fail to see how discussing women's standards is relevant to men being sociopaths who believe the world is owed to them. I am open to understanding though if you have knowledge to kick
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Old 07-06-2017, 05:44 PM
 
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You read into my post things that aren't there. I don't classify people as either nice guy or bad boy. I am using words that the manosphere likes to speak to them in their language. That is it.

It doesn't change the fact that many incel types do have a sense of entitlement and they refuse to understand male/female dynamics. They instead feel like the world owes them something but they don't do what it takes to get it.

And no, no one should date anyone they don't like. But at the same time people need to stop having ridiculous standards which many incel men do. You wanna date a girl whom all the guys fawn over? Then become the male equivalent. It's not easy but worthwhile things never are.

And men who have rape fantasies and **** shame women don't need to be lifted up. They need to be given a dose of reality. Men who think that women are evil for ignoring them don't need to be treated like victims.
Not all celibates are a-holes.
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Old 07-06-2017, 05:52 PM
 
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Not all celibates are a-holes.
Of course not. Where did this come into play? But the way I see it, if women constantly reject you, maybe realize more things are in your control them blaming society for your shortcomings.
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Old 07-06-2017, 05:56 PM
 
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Nope, there's internet porn now. As long as the incels don't hurt no one like rodger did who cares?
I certainly don't care. They do however so in their best interest, maybe they should change?

And porn existing means what now? I have the same access to porn they do. I just use it to try things I haven't before and many girls like it as well. What did porn do to create these men? They created themselves more than they will admit.
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Old 07-06-2017, 05:58 PM
 
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I certainly don't care. They do however so in their best interest, maybe they should change?

And porn existing means what now? I have the same access to porn they do. I just use it to try things I haven't before and many girls like it as well. What did porn do to create these men? They created themselves more than they will admit.
You missed the point. With porn there's no incentive to change and go out and pursue women.
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Old 07-06-2017, 05:59 PM
 
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Of course not. Where did this come into play? But the way I see it, if women constantly reject you, maybe realize more things are in your control them blaming society for your shortcomings.
Yep that's what a-holes do so not all celibate men are a-holes. (Blame others for their problems).
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