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Old 05-24-2014, 11:09 PM
 
Location: Texas
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What an entitled little p*ss ant! Boohoo. I'm 22, drive a Beamer, and oh noes, never been kissed. Girls are so mean!

Women, don't ever go out with someone like this for pity, fear, or any other reason. I'd rather be dead than be a part of his bizzaro world "gentlemanly" fantasies.

I just hope there won't be any copycat slayings going forward, but there are an astonishing amount of guys out there that have the same type of entitlement mindset in regards to being objects of women's affection.
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:09 PM
 
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Women don't go to bars to get laid. Most of them are interested in meeting a guy who would not be looking at a woman as a piece of meat. That probably is a male/female difference.

And yet so many women there go home with guys they just met. Of course, all the women will be like "Oh I don't do that". Well then who is?


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I don't agree. There are lots of non-hideous women who may have poor social skills, or are shy, or have low-self-esteem---who have trouble finding a guy. And if you count having some guy who is looking for a one-night-stand as having a guy be interested in you, I don't think that's what most women are looking for. In fact most women find that approach repulsive.

Doesn't matter what women are looking for. Undesirables still count as options. And as another poster stated, the women here when pressed eventually admitted they had guys into them. So they do have options. Poor social skills, shy, low self-esteem, and whatever else I'm forgetting. Unless a woman looks like Susan Boyle, they all have at least a few who are into them. They count as options, whether you're into them or not.


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Magazines are created to make money, you are right, and women's magazines wouldn't be full of advice on how to attract a man, how to tell if a man is attracted to you, how to tell if a man is in love with you, how to tell if a man will commit to you...on and on and on... ---if there weren't so many women interested in those topics, and those topics sold magazines. This shows that there are tons of women out there who feel like they can't find a guy.

Magazines feed off the insecurity of women. Now let's go over this one more time before I hit the submit reply icon. Women all have options. They just don't count the undesirables. The guy who wants to take you home still counts. The creepy guy at the gas station is still an option. Cletus with only 4 teeth is still an option. BrahmaBull is still an option. You don't count only the ones you find attractive. That's not how it works.
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:12 PM
 
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Where did you receive all this "knowledge" from?
Life?
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:12 PM
 
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That is not true. There are many lonely women desperate for a boyfriend.

The challenge is how do these desperate women and desperate men find each other, especially since most of them are shy and socially awkward?
This. In case you missed it due to all the noise.
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:13 PM
 
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Alpha, schmalpha. I can tell where you're coming from. Again, that's a pick-up artist myth, that women are most attracted to these super-confident, strutting, mysterious, magician lol types ---- women like different types of men, because women are individuals, with individual inclinations. The PUAs put forth this fake ideology of alpha male strategies to get girls, I don't think it works.
A lot of those alpha guys are total narcissists, I know I used to live with one. He spent more time fixing his hair than my girlfriend at the time. He got a lot of chicks but never had any meaningful relationships. He was also a total control freak douche.
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:13 PM
 
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Where did you receive all this "knowledge" from?
What "knowledge" did I exactly claim to have?
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:14 PM
 
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All people are more attracted to good-looking people. So good-looking men or women, people who have won the looks lottery, do have an advantage. But that doesn't automatically mean they are successful in dating or relationships. There are many exceedingly shy good-looking guys and girls, who don't do well in the social arena. Heck, this shooter-guy was good-looking; but he was as creepy as hell, and it seemed like he didn't even approach girls. He had more deep-seated problems than finding a girlfriend.
I would never suggest that women are attracted primarily to good looking men. That'd be pretty benign.
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:15 PM
 
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This. In case you missed it due to all the noise.

When you rule out basically anyone who is average or slightly above/below, one would get desperate after awhile. When you only aim for the top and you're only average yourself, you're going to be alone. That would be like an average looking guy with an average job and thinning hair, and him expecting a hot blonde. Not going to happen. Leagues exist whether we admit it or not and we all know on a subconscious level where we stand.
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:15 PM
 
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And yet so many women there go home with guys they just met. Of course, all the women will be like "Oh I don't do that". Well then who is?





Doesn't matter what women are looking for. Undesirables still count as options. And as another poster stated, the women here when pressed eventually admitted they had guys into them. So they do have options. Poor social skills, shy, low self-esteem, and whatever else I'm forgetting. Unless a woman looks like Susan Boyle, they all have at least a few who are into them. They count as options, whether you're into them or not.





Magazines feed off the insecurity of women. Now let's go over this one more time before I hit the submit reply icon. Women all have options. They just don't count the undesirables. The guy who wants to take you home still counts. The creepy guy at the gas station is still an option. Cletus with only 4 teeth is still an option. BrahmaBull is still an option. You don't count only the ones you find attractive. That's not how it works.
well then why don't these guys who can't 'get' a girl go out with undesirable girls (in their eyes)? If everyone is aiming for the hotties, then that's not going to work. It's like this Elliot Rodgers; he didn't want an average girl, he wanted a goddess. (And he's not a good example anyway, because he was crazy, and it sounds like he never even attempted to approach or talk to any women.)
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Old 05-24-2014, 11:16 PM
 
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Women don't go to bars to get laid. Most of them are interested in meeting a guy who would not be looking at a woman as a piece of meat. That probably is a male/female difference.

I don't agree. There are lots of non-hideous women who may have poor social skills, or are shy, or have low-self-esteem---who have trouble finding a guy. And if you count having some guy who is looking for a one-night-stand as having a guy be interested in you, I don't think that's what most women are looking for. In fact most women find that approach repulsive.

Magazines are created to make money, you are right, and women's magazines wouldn't be full of advice on how to attract a man, how to tell if a man is attracted to you, how to tell if a man is in love with you, how to tell if a man will commit to you...on and on and on... ---if there weren't so many women interested in those topics, and those topics sold magazines. This shows that there are tons of women out there who feel like they can't find a guy.
I agree.
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