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Old 07-01-2014, 07:35 PM
 
Location: where you sip the tea of the breasts of the spinsters of Utica
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Well, ugliness sucks, there really is a huge difference in how people treat you. I've mostly been ugly, but once in my life I lost enough weight for my face to emerge and I looked good, better than average guys ...... it was amazing how women looked at me and smiled at my jokes, how people wanted to hang out with me and do things for me.

On the other hand, lots of ugly people can overcome those natural reactions to their appearance. Look at politicians for one example, many of them are way less than handsome (especially in the past, before the modern fitness craze).
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Old 07-02-2014, 12:22 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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I see people on an off who are just plain ugly. It must be a burden beyond belief. They may be nice people and want to have close friends and a nice job and all the things that the average person has but their appearance makes this impossible.

What is the inner psychology of someone who is just plain ugly?
Insecurity is one. Lack of self esteem. Even shallowness in order to feel good about themselves.
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Old 07-02-2014, 01:09 AM
 
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i think a "ugly" man don't care as much, but it most be hell to be a "ugly" woman with the sexism of today's society.
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Old 07-02-2014, 06:34 AM
 
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You do realize you just described yourself to a tee, right?
Yes, I am physically, emotionally and culturally UGLY and I wanted to see how other people who are like me feel.
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Old 07-02-2014, 07:09 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Yes, I am physically, emotionally and culturally UGLY and I wanted to see how other people who are like me feel.
Fix yourself instead of wallowing in it and wondering how others feel.
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Old 07-02-2014, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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Ugliness isn't limited to just appearance.
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Old 07-02-2014, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Fort Lauderdale, Florida
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I see people on an off who are just plain ugly. It must be a burden beyond belief. They may be nice people and want to have close friends and a nice job and all the things that the average person has but their appearance makes this impossible.

What is the inner psychology of someone who is just plain ugly?
When you fell down and smacked your head on the concrete, did they bother to tell you the damage was permanent?
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Old 07-02-2014, 11:27 AM
 
Location: East Bay, San Francisco Bay Area
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Plastic surgery?
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Old 07-02-2014, 11:49 AM
 
Location: City Data Land
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I see people on an off who are just plain ugly. It must be a burden beyond belief. They may be nice people and want to have close friends and a nice job and all the things that the average person has but their appearance makes this impossible.

What is the inner psychology of someone who is just plain ugly?
A more apt question would be, "What is the inner psychology of someone who has atrocious spelling and grammar skills?" Another interesting discussion might be, "What is the inner psychology of people who are incredibly arrogant?
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Old 07-02-2014, 12:09 PM
 
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Wow... Who asks this? Like really...
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