Since I've figured out the "game", I'm not much of a victim but I see Girlzilla victimize her father, my other half. I had to spend two events last weekend in her presence but she no longer victimizes me - or at least it doesn't work. I'm a bit dismayed that I can't call her on her BS but I know she really controls her father's heart. Still, he won't jeopardize our relationship because of her BS - though she has demanded that he leave me. Anyway - it's all here in a nutshell.
Narcissistic Victim Syndrome - the Fallout of Narcissistic Personalit