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Because the mother accused him of physically harming the children, and of inflicting abuse that leaves the children frightened of him.
If this is true, it's best for everyone that he did leave.
Or are you talking about money?
I agree it is best for some to just leave. I do not care about the money. I always give the option of going away. But as I have told him a few times. "No need to pay if you go away, but if you are going to be a thorn in my side, you will pay. Choice is yours."
I agree it is best for some to just leave. I do not care about the money. I always give the option of going away. But as I have told him a few times. "No need to pay if you go away, but if you are going to be a thorn in my side, you will pay. Choice is yours."
You sure made it easy for him to leave. And now you want to blame him for going?
Many years ago I moved into a new housing tract. The neighbors across the street were a young couple with a baby. People started to notice that after the man left for work, the woman would invite construction workers (building more houses next to ours) into the house.
One day the man came home from work and discovered his wife had vanished, leaving the baby behind. Strange how life can change in an instant.
I'd say the one's left behind got lucky! I felt such relief and JOY when our dad up an left us in my teens. Good riddance to bad rubbish! Now that baby may be given a REAL MOM!
But the reason for your thread is asking how he could walk away from their child, yet you basically paid him to leave.
I have never paid him. He makes 3-4 times my income.
Ok let me reword it for you...
How can a father walk away from his own child, when the only benefit is saving a couple hundred dollars a month? And how do you suggest that someone make him want to be invested in his own child?
How can a father walk away from his own child, when the only benefit is saving a couple hundred dollars a month? And how do you suggest that someone make him want to be invested in his own child?
When he doesn't want to deal with the mother of the child. As you said: "if you are going to be a thorn in my side, you will pay".
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They got lucky
