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Old 12-31-2017, 09:15 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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How do you know what the energy is before you show up?
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Old 12-31-2017, 10:39 AM
 
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The "sign" is them asking you to leave them alone before it got to the restraining order part? We need more details.


My ex used to change the energy in the room because he was big, tall, and his normal resting face looked like he was scowling. He would often sit with his arms crossed, he came across looking like an angry person and people felt they had to be on eggshells around him. It didn't help that during discussions, he would shout people down and in other ways "bully" people a bit just with his mannerisms.
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Old 12-31-2017, 10:48 AM
 
Location: Bexley, Ohio
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Everyone's energy changes when I show up.
Are you offering something positive or relevant to the conversation?
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Old 12-31-2017, 11:27 AM
 
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How's your personal hygiene?
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Old 12-31-2017, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Log "cabin" west of Bangor
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Everyone's energy changes when I show up.
http://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post50379180

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I'm very serious. It just hasn't happened. Girls avoid me all the time, and I don't know why.
http://www.city-data.com/forum/psych...l#post50448600

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It's been like this my entire life. No one has ever wanted me around, and everyone that knows me thinks I'm a bum and failure. I'm a social reject, an outcast, a washout, a pee-on, and possibly a targeted individual.
http://www.city-data.com/forum/work-...l#post50519206

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I'm a 22 y.o. with very little work experience and no credentials or accolades. At this rate, I'll still be at home well into my 30s.
http://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post50519462

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I'm a virgin in ALL aspects. It's very difficult for me to build any sort of rapport with a female. I guess I'm too ugly or weird.
Judging by your thread-start history, the answer is obvious- no one is 'threatened' by you, their thoughts are quite likely something completely different...

...and now, the Larch.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrDFGa0juCM
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Old 12-31-2017, 01:45 PM
 
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Maybe because you are so negative
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Old 12-31-2017, 01:49 PM
 
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How do you know what the energy is before you show up?
Exactly
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Old 12-31-2017, 02:01 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Everyone ? Love a mystery....

Do you frequently here the word, narcissist ?

Are you intimidating; offensive?

A gang member?

Are known to clear a room?

Do you look like elephant man?
Hahaha, this thread is priceless! Happy New Year, everybody!
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Old 12-31-2017, 02:27 PM
 
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http://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post50379180



http://www.city-data.com/forum/psych...l#post50448600



http://www.city-data.com/forum/work-...l#post50519206



http://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post50519462



Judging by your thread-start history, the answer is obvious- no one is 'threatened' by you, their thoughts are quite likely something completely different...

...and now, the Larch.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrDFGa0juCM
https://www.bing.com/shop?q=trolling...01D59DB144FF2B
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Old 12-31-2017, 06:08 PM
 
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Everyone ? Love a mystery....

Do you frequently here the word, narcissist ?

Are you intimidating; offensive?

A gang member?

Are known to clear a room?

Do you look like elephant man?
Think about your personality characteristics. Are you a know it all? Narcissistic? Loud and overbearing? Do you brag or try to "one up" people all the time? Are you a great listener? Do you talk too much or try to change the subject to what you want to discuss? Do you show empathy for others? There are some great tests to take on line...The Myers Briggs Personality Inventory is free at several sites on line.

We can all stand to learn some things about ourselves and our personality characteristics.
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