Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Psychology
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 12-29-2020, 01:12 PM
 
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
6,616 posts, read 4,888,687 times
Reputation: 3601

Advertisements

https://centerforparentingeducation....opment-by-age/

I found it by looking for information about when disdain develops. My first memory of it is toward an adult, before age 9 and I felt equal disdain toward genders and other groups, and the entire article seems about extraverted, well-adjusted boys - anyone else feel that way?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 12-30-2020, 12:10 PM
 
13,511 posts, read 19,291,770 times
Reputation: 16581
As it says in the beginning, the child is unique and will do things on his own schedule.
That's all that needs saying.
If you want to push your children to meet milestones set by others so be it...I know I never would nor did, and my children all turned out just fine.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-31-2020, 01:45 AM
 
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
6,616 posts, read 4,888,687 times
Reputation: 3601
I don't have children. My own development was so different that I wonder about the article's accuracy.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-31-2020, 09:02 AM
 
13,511 posts, read 19,291,770 times
Reputation: 16581
probably written by psychologists who study children...but, and this to me is key... have none of their own.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-31-2020, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Central IL
20,722 posts, read 16,389,568 times
Reputation: 50380
Quote:
Originally Posted by purehuman View Post
probably written by psychologists who study children...but, and this to me is key... have none of their own.
No developmental psychologists have children of their own? How hilariously low probability is that?

BTW, any good scientist in psychology is looking at the population - not just citing what their own kid is doing. Because there is a broad range of behavior that is considered "normal" or typical. Why would one kid be the complete embodiment of what is typical?

I'm talking about actual academic research here, not just what some pseudo-scientific reporter says. I don't think you understand the difference, or science, or the science that is psychology.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-02-2021, 10:06 AM
 
13,511 posts, read 19,291,770 times
Reputation: 16581
Quote:
Originally Posted by reneeh63 View Post

I don't think you understand the difference, or science, or the science that is psychology.
feel better now???
Please tell me you're NOT a psychologist!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-03-2021, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Central IL
20,722 posts, read 16,389,568 times
Reputation: 50380
Quote:
Originally Posted by purehuman View Post
feel better now???
Please tell me you're NOT a psychologist!
I dunno if I feel better - have you learned anything?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-05-2021, 10:29 AM
 
13,511 posts, read 19,291,770 times
Reputation: 16581
Quote:
Originally Posted by reneeh63 View Post
I dunno if I feel better - have you learned anything?
Is your "feeling better" contingent upon that?...hope not!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-05-2021, 08:52 PM
 
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
6,616 posts, read 4,888,687 times
Reputation: 3601
A human is messing up my thread. That's the only comment I will make on that, and you can guess what will happen if I want it (or maybe regardless). Just the article itself is worth reading.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-05-2021, 10:08 PM
 
830 posts, read 745,048 times
Reputation: 1073
From my view, and I'm firmly a behaviorist philosophically (a splinter off psychology - with wildly different views), this would not be an article or website that I would share with potential clients or families or put much stock in.

Maybe it is cute and fun to read, but it reads more like a horoscope than true human developmental information.

My guess is that your disdain had to do with specific environmental events, maybe even a complex and/or unrecognizable sequence of them...or some sort of parental or community governance. Impossible to tell without being you, but perhaps making a chart or notating a sequence of events would be helpful to you.

Biologically, something resembling what you call disdain, is most likely visible in other ways from an early age.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Psychology

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 10:55 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top