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It sounds horrible, but really it's not. She has her own home she can go to at any time. She comes home currently at all hours....makes a mess....leaves. Doesn't talk to her own child (stepdaughter to me). Nothing preempted this. To me it was she couldn't have an unemployed husband (that was 2 months and I knew it was coming).....and am making very nice money again. To the kid it was that I don't take care of myself....again, not really true. I go to the gym several times a week now and yes, I'm a terrible cook.
The point isn't to win to get her back. For a couple of months she was straight up cruel to us both...and she's supposed to be in charge of her Uncle's care and she's moving him from a home he likes to an unknown so he doesn't spend all of HIS money. (that she's set to inherit) i realized that is EXACTLY what will happen to me.
Having formerly been the control freak of the family, the kid and I both....rebelled in a way. Now we just want her gone and to take her massive truckloads of crap with her.
So I'm not kicking her out on the street penniless. Far from it. She'll drive off in her Tesla X with a low miles late Lexus she can sell. Has a fully rented property of her own. Master closets full of Gucci, Prada, LV, Chanel and a jewelry box most would envy....and she'll have a nice big check. But I can't leave the house...and I can't force her out. The kid wants to stay. I don't want another partner....I just want the stupidity to end.
Granted....maybe she wasn't thinking it was hard to get the genie back into the lamp, but it's out now....and neither the kid nor me want back in.
Didn't completely understand your OP. What does your divorce decree state about either of you leaving this home and when? Without knowing the stipulations and agreements you've reached in your settlement how can strangers comment? You may not be able to force her to do anything until a certain date.
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Didn't completely understand your OP. What does your divorce decree state about either of you leaving this home and when? Without knowing the stipulations and agreements you've reached in your settlement how can strangers comment? You may not be able to force her to do anything until a certain date.
