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The only thing I think Cary may be more strict about are businesses related (sign ordinances, exterior facades, and zoning regulations, although that's not an area I'm an expert in), but not the lives of private citizens. I live my life the same way in Cary as I did when I lived in Raleigh. I really see no difference.
So y'all wouldn't agree with the statement that the town of Cary governs more on the residents compared to other towns just outside of Raleigh such as Apex, Holly Springs, Garner, Clayton, Knightdale, Wake Forest, and Morrisville?
I would also disagree strongly - I know that Apex is just as strict as Cary on many things - especially signage! HOA's would be the same in both towns with regard to house colors. Also, Apex doesn't let children play in the street, but Cary does!
I would also disagree strongly - I know that Apex is just as strict as Cary on many things - especially signage! HOA's would be the same in both towns with regard to house colors. Also, Apex doesn't let children play in the street, but Cary does!
I think most people who live in Unincorporated Wake County would disagree with you.
Stricter regulations on signs, pets, fences, building, parking .....
Never had a problem with the Town of Cary (actually think highly of the town). I have had SILLY problems with my HOA consisting of recently relocated NJ/NY types though......
To the OP, any town/city in this area is friendly and great to live in.
The only thing I think Cary may be more strict about are businesses related (sign ordinances, exterior facades, and zoning regulations, although that's not an area I'm an expert in), but not the lives of private citizens. I live my life the same way in Cary as I did when I lived in Raleigh. I really see no difference.
This "reputation" that Cary got came about from a time (1990s, I'm thinking?) when it was in the news for one "ridiculously overreaching ordinance" or another, regarding signage, what colors were allowed, etc. Typical of TV news, the local stations would manage to find someone in Cary who had been told they couldn't paint their mailbox a certain color (almost certainly a HOW thing, not town) but people began associating Cary with "they tell you how to wipe your, um, nose" sorts of laws. It actually has been many years since I've heard "those stories" about Cary, but the image persists.
This "reputation" that Cary got came about from a time (1990s, I'm thinking?) when it was in the news for one "ridiculously overreaching ordinance" or another, regarding signage, what colors were allowed, etc. Typical of TV news, the local stations would manage to find someone in Cary who had been told they couldn't paint their mailbox a certain color (almost certainly a HOW thing, not town) but people began associating Cary with "they tell you how to wipe your, um, nose" sorts of laws. It actually has been many years since I've heard "those stories" about Cary, but the image persists.
Hypothetically speaking, of course, one guy probably got "screwed by the town of Cary", and it got plastered all over the news and internet. Sounds crazy, but it can happen
I also moved here about a year ago, and was really worried because of the bad rap. I can not possibly be happier, and am certain that the stereotype does not fit. As recently as this week, I had a friend over who was all excited to tell me how bad Cary was. We went for an hour walk on greenways and neighborhoods, and she too is a convert.
It's a great place to live, with excellent diversity, lots of local restaurants and shops, and nice people. But SSSShhhhh, don't tell everyone. Before you know it a bunch of Yankees will want to relocate here...
I remember when there was a big hubbub when Talbot's opened, and Cary denied them their red door, but then the denial got overturned. The denial got lots of press, Cary backing down on the denial not so much!
I remember when there was a big hubbub when Talbot's opened, and Cary denied them their red door, but then the denial got overturned. The denial got lots of press, Cary backing down on the denial not so much!
This is what seems to be the norm in Cary. They have standards in order to keep the town nice. When residents say they think the standard is unreasonable/unnecessary (i.e. Talbots red door, chickens, 2 dog limit that got overturned) Cary listens and changes its policies to reflect the needs/desires of the citizens. I think it's a great system!
This "reputation" that Cary got came about from a time (1990s, I'm thinking?) when it was in the news for one "ridiculously overreaching ordinance" or another, regarding signage, what colors were allowed, etc. Typical of TV news, the local stations would manage to find someone in Cary who had been told they couldn't paint their mailbox a certain color (almost certainly a HOW thing, not town) but people began associating Cary with "they tell you how to wipe your, um, nose" sorts of laws. It actually has been many years since I've heard "those stories" about Cary, but the image persists.
It's actually HOA - Home Owner's Association
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I like it here.
