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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years and hes super affectionate. In general I hate being touched. I dont like holding hands, dont like being hugged, or kissed, and I really hate cuddling (literally feel like I'm being suffocated). I feel terrible that my boyfriend is always looking for something from me but I never initiate affection and I always turn down his affection. It's almost as if I have an allergic reaction. I get hot and bothered and sometimes even itchy. Any suggestions, I feel terrible.
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No there isn't feel free to post here. I don't know how your. relationship can have lasted 4 years without any affection. How does your boyfriend feel? Has anything happened to you in your past that could have caused you to hate affection?
Last edited by KylieEve; 08-31-2010 at 02:47 PM..
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When you say that you don't like being kissed do you mean publicly or ever? I don't think it is clear from your post as to whether you're referring to public displays of affection or all displays of affection, including private ones.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years and hes super affectionate. In general I hate being touched. I dont like holding hands, dont like being hugged, or kissed, and I really hate cuddling (literally feel like I'm being suffocated). I feel terrible that my boyfriend is always looking for something from me but I never initiate affection and I always turn down his affection. It's almost as if I have an allergic reaction. I get hot and bothered and sometimes even itchy. Any suggestions, I feel terrible.
Check your pulse. Are you sure you're not a zombie or a vamp?
All joking aside....I hope your post is sincere. Your post reads more like someone trying to get a provocative conversation going, but I have questions anyway. Maybe there is something in your past that makes you feel that way? Maybe you don't really love your boyfriend of 4 years? Does he ooze goo from his skin or smell like rotten cheese? Does he come home covered in soot and poo?
Maybe he's irresponsible with money and kicks puppies?
I don't think you are being very fair to your boyfriend.
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