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View Poll Results: Ladies: Have you ever been attracted to a gay man?
No, and I am not homophobic. 12 33.33%
Yes, secretly because I have no chance... 5 13.89%
Yes, openly so. 18 50.00%
I don't accept alternative lifestyles, period. 1 2.78%
Voters: 36. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 10-08-2010, 05:21 PM
 
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I think a gay guy can relate more to a woman then a straight man cause they are feminine (most of them).
As a non-feminine gay male myself, I'd have to say that most of my gay friends are also non-feminine. It's probably just easier to know that someone is gay if they act more feminine, which is what gives the impression that most are.

I'd have to say that I relate pretty well to straight men. Sure, I don't get into team sports or talk about how big some girl's breasts are, but I still relate to problems people have in relationships, resolutions for problems with our vehicles, places to go hiking / mountain biking / snowboarding, what type of beer tastes better on a steak, etc.

I've been attracted to straight guys before. Many times, in fact. It's just a bummer when I hit on them in hopes that they're gay, and it turns out they're not. For guys that I knew were straight, I never overstep my boundaries. I'm a fairly flirty guy, but if someone looks like they're uncomfortable, I back off. The whole "conversion" BS just makes others not want to be around you.
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Old 10-08-2010, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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... even though you knew he was gay and you had no chance?

Be truthful!
You have issues.
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Old 10-08-2010, 08:06 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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Nonsense! Gay men love to make out with women.
LOL. This is soooo true! And they are fascinated with le boobs.

I say every girl needs a good gay guy in her life. Plus they "teach" great little tidbits.....just saying
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Old 10-09-2010, 01:11 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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You have issues.
Everyone does. Your point?
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Old 10-09-2010, 08:02 PM
 
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There are gay men that are attractive, but I am not attracted to them. There is much more than looks, to be attracted to.
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Old 10-09-2010, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Neither here nor there
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Only as a friend. Purely platonic friendships with gay men are great. Never had a real brother but had two gay friends who subbed for them.
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Old 10-09-2010, 09:05 PM
 
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Yes. He was so perfect and wonderful. All the best ones...
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Old 10-09-2010, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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No, but I've been attracted to a bi-curious guy...?
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Old 10-09-2010, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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Only as a friend. Purely platonic friendships with gay men are great. Never had a real brother but had two gay friends who subbed for them.
IMO and experience, gay male friends are over-rated.
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Old 10-09-2010, 11:04 PM
 
Location: Neither here nor there
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IMO and experience, gay male friends are over-rated.
Like anything else, some bad, some good. Maybe I was just lucky.
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