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I guess when I'm dead I won't really have any regrets. In fact I won't have much of anything to worry about aside from whether or not we got a good deal on the casket and is it truly air-tight and waterproof? Of course if there is anyone who could break my balls from beyond the after-life, it would be her. And there I go writing something that could potentially get me into trouble...put it on my tab with all the rest of it.
OH! and I know player guy reads the board, because he knows all my regular websites. He also makes up fake facebook accounts and keeps trying to add me, I am like, why am I your FIRST friend request if you supposedly don't know me..... yesterday he got smart and added 4 other friends first, lmao.... :P
Just wondering if any spouses or significant others are shareing their posts with their partners? It's easy to come to City-Data and declare everything from "My wife just doesn't undersand me.", to "My wife is the best thing in my life!", but do you ever think to actually go to that person and have a respectful heart to heart discussion about what is bothering you? I was just thinking....if, God forbid, something terrible happened that took your life, and your spouse or SO were left behind and could read all your posts, have you said anything on here that you would regret?
"have you said anything on here that you would regret?"
i guess when i'm dead i won't really have any regrets. In fact i won't have much of anything to worry about aside from whether or not we got a good deal on the casket and is it truly air-tight and waterproof? Of course if there is anyone who could break my balls from beyond the after-life, it would be her. And there i go writing something that could potentially get me into trouble...put it on my tab with all the rest of it.
Just wondering if any spouses or significant others are shareing their posts with their partners? It's easy to come to City-Data and declare everything from "My wife just doesn't undersand me.", to "My wife is the best thing in my life!", but do you ever think to actually go to that person and have a respectful heart to heart discussion about what is bothering you? I was just thinking....if, God forbid, something terrible happened that took your life, and your spouse or SO were left behind and could read all your posts, have you said anything on here that you would regret?
Who would want to share this with their spouse, SO, or even someone you're casually dating??? Takes all the fun out of it, and you can't be 'open'.
I don't feel like I need to share every bit of information with my SO, to be honest. And I'm not hiding anything, I just don't think C-D and whatever goes on here is something he'll care about or find amusing. And if he ends up seeing my posts... well.. I think he'll be even more in love with me.
Who would want to share this with their spouse, SO, or even someone you're casually dating??? Takes all the fun out of it, and you can't be 'open'.
My SO stumbled across this forum while he was looking for information re moving to Tucson, so this forum has always been more of a lark, not specifically looking for relationship advice. If he really needed to be "open," he could always go sign up on another site, I suppose.
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Originally Posted by MissLucky
I don't feel like I need to share every bit of information with my SO, to be honest. And I'm not hiding anything, I just don't think C-D and whatever goes on here is something he'll care about or find amusing. And if he ends up seeing my posts... well.. I think he'll be even more in love with me.
If someone felt they needed to vent about me, I suppose I'd prefer it be done anonymously.
I guess when I'm dead I won't really have any regrets. In fact I won't have much of anything to worry about aside from whether or not we got a good deal on the casket and is it truly air-tight and waterproof? Of course if there is anyone who could break my balls from beyond the after-life, it would be her. And there I go writing something that could potentially get me into trouble...put it on my tab with all the rest of it.
This stuff is here forever and if you use the same moniker on other sites, you CAN get in deep doo-doo. Not that you've said too much, but it's enough!
It may come to haunt even us singles! Since I have this "on & off" pattern, I get more careless during "off" time, meaning I may share more than I normally would. This time "off" time may be permanent, though...
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