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Old 10-25-2010, 10:35 AM
 
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Dh and I are celebrating 13 years soon and I want to do something for him that he'd enjoy. He's getting a "practical gift" but I want to give him a splurge item too.

He's always wanted to have a massage but it's one of those personal splurges that gets put on the back burner for us because it's not "necessary". Then, I thought of a couples massage, or should I just let him have this one to himself?

My other thought was taking him to the hockey game (good seats, lower level). There is a game scheduled the weekend of our anniversary and I thought I'd hire the babysitter and not let him in on where we are going until we got there.

If it helps, we have 4 kids, I stay home and he works out of the home about 55 hours a week. Our free time usually consists of helping the kids with homework, taking them to practices/watching their sporting events, doing housework/yardwork, lounging on the weekends and watching football and socializing with friends.

I'd like this to be all about US for the evening and I'd like to keep it under $300.

Thoughts, opinions, other suggestions?
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Old 10-25-2010, 10:43 AM
 
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It's the little things you know about someone after that long together that you draw on to choose something special. Think about his interests, hobbies, little things that amuse him, things like that. Only someone who knows him well can personalize it like that.
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Old 10-25-2010, 10:48 AM
 
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Actually, the fact that I am doing the planning and not him is going to be the biggest "little thing" here. He is usually the one to plan the evening.

But these two activities are the things that I know he'd enjoy most. I'm just not sure if I should do the pampering type gift or the manly gift...lol

I guess whichever I choose, the other could be a Christmas gift.
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Old 10-25-2010, 11:04 AM
 
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Whichever gift you pick as long as the day ends with you naked it'll be fine
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Old 10-25-2010, 11:16 AM
 
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I'll make it simple for you.

Men want two things only.

We want a beer and we want to see something naked.
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Old 10-25-2010, 11:19 AM
 
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I'm a woman and I like the hockey game idea...Do the couples massage for Xmas
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Old 10-25-2010, 11:36 AM
 
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He could watch hockey any time but massages are more exclusive so my vote goes for massage
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Old 10-25-2010, 12:10 PM
 
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I'll make it simple for you.

Men want two things only.

We want a beer and we want to see something naked.
Well aren't you a cheap date

We are definitely participating in the naked olympics at the end of the evening!
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Old 10-25-2010, 12:25 PM
 
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You can do alot with that budget! One thing your husband may appreciate is just time alone with you so I don't like the idea of a hockey game (too noisy and loud).

I would book a hotel room with a jacuzzi (fireplace would be good too ), go to the room ahead of time and lay out some champagne, massage oil, soft music, chocolate dipped strawberries in the fridge........

You could spend quiet, uninterrupted time together to reconnect over....and over...and over. Even if you don't spend the entire night, you will have some great quality time together and create a lasting memory to reflect back on with a smile. Good luck!
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Old 10-25-2010, 01:00 PM
 
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You can do alot with that budget! One thing your husband may appreciate is just time alone with you so I don't like the idea of a hockey game (too noisy and loud).

I would book a hotel room with a jacuzzi (fireplace would be good too ), go to the room ahead of time and lay out some champagne, massage oil, soft music, chocolate dipped strawberries in the fridge........

You could spend quiet, uninterrupted time together to reconnect over....and over...and over. Even if you don't spend the entire night, you will have some great quality time together and create a lasting memory to reflect back on with a smile. Good luck!
Oh I really like this idea!
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