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There's a guy in your life; a friend, co-worker, classmate, etc. that likes you. You're not interested in him romantically. If he plays his cards right by keeping a safe distance and not smothering you does he stand a chance of ever winning your affections or is the line pretty much drawn in the sand?
Totally depends on each individual person and the location. There is NO general rule about these things. If I worked with you your chances are less than the others and then it would depend on how I feel about you.
There's a guy in your life; a friend, co-worker, classmate, etc. that likes you. You're not interested in him romantically. If he plays his cards right by keeping a safe distance and not smothering you does he stand a chance of ever winning your affections or is the line pretty much drawn in the sand?
There are 3.4 billion other women out there. Many, many, are sure to like you back.
There's a guy in your life; a friend, co-worker, classmate, etc. that likes you. You're not interested in him romantically. If he plays his cards right by keeping a safe distance and not smothering you does he stand a chance of ever winning your affections or is the line pretty much drawn in the sand?
Providing that I was single, yes, it's very possible. Couple of my previous relationships started this way. I didn't initially feel an attraction, but after awhile, started noticing some wonderful things that he did or said and how he respected my space that warmed me up to him and I started feeling an attraction.
My understanding is that men will make their decision about a woman almost right away, but women take much longer to assess a man's qualities, so I'm thinking that if you haven't done something to turn her off, you could win her affections over time. My ex was my friend (w/o benefits!) for 7 years before we got together, so anything can happen. If you know she loves animals and you save a kitten from a tree, you could surely win her love, lol.
My ex was my friend (w/o benefits!) for 7 years before we got together, so anything can happen.
You know, Stepka, with all due respect, I don't think it's fair to others to give them examples they presume apply to straight men when in reality the guy in question is at least bi and you've mentioned that yourself.
You better be some kind of attractive guy whether it be face wise or personality wise. If not, then good luck. Bondurant i suggest you date nice women with low self esteem, they seem your type.
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