I can't work women out (child, like, support, people)

[artsyguy]

Women like beards i.e., fur.

Originally Posted by dave nz

Usually I'm a pretty tidy dresser / grooming.

Due to circumstances I was out on the town and not dressed or groomed to my usual standard eg. unshaven, clothes pretty casual. But got alot of female attention, even more than usual. Makes no sense to me.

[dave nz]

Was in the City in a night out again recently again unshaven and dressed pretty casual. Exact same thing, got more female attention than I would if I was dressed formal and shaven......Weird!!!!

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by dave nz

Usually I'm a pretty tidy dresser / grooming.
Due to circumstances I was out on the town and not dressed or groomed to my usual standard eg. unshaven, clothes pretty casual. But got alot of female attention, even more than usual. Makes no sense to me.

First, define 'attention.' Is it just a look or are you actually being approaced and engaged in conversation with them. They mght actually be thinking you're an odd man.

If not, I totally agree with the following and most likely are more approachable. It's no different the other way around. Think about it - who would you find more approachable if it was a woman you were looking at?

Originally Posted by Ozgal

maybe you looked more relaxed? ...

Originally Posted by misplaced1

I might define it as looking high maintenance.

[dave nz]

Originally Posted by Thursday007

First, define 'attention.' Is it just a look or are you actually being approaced and engaged in conversation with them. They mght actually be thinking you're an odd man.

The works. Looking at, flirting with but mainly starting conversation with me. Helps the ratio of women to men of the City I'm currently in is nearly 4 :1 in my age bracket.

Originally Posted by Thursday007

If not, I totally agree with the following and most likely are more approachable. It's no different the other way around. Think about it - who would you find more approachable if it was woman you were looking at?

Yeah fair enough for some people I guess, but not for me. I'm usually more likely to approach a woman if she takes a deal of effort in her presentation, without being over the top.....which I don't believe I am (over the top).

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by dave nz

Yeah fair enough for some people I guess, but not for me. I'm usually more likely to approach a woman if she takes a deal of effort in her presentation, without being over the top.....which I don't believe I am (over the top).

The way we see ourselves is often quite different than the way other people view our appearance.

[pkrplr1]

Originally Posted by dave nz

Usually I'm a pretty tidy dresser / grooming.

Due to circumstances I was out on the town and not dressed or groomed to my usual standard eg. unshaven, clothes pretty casual. But got alot of female attention, even more than usual. Makes no sense to me.

were the women that were giving you attention slobs too?

[dave nz]

Originally Posted by pkrplr1

were the women that were giving you attention slobs too?

Nope, most certaintly weren't, but thanks for your concern

[thebobs]

Originally Posted by dave nz

Usually I'm a pretty tidy dresser / grooming.

Due to circumstances I was out on the town and not dressed or groomed to my usual standard eg. unshaven, clothes pretty casual. But got alot of female attention, even more than usual. Makes no sense to me.

Forget it. Don't even try to think of figuring them out. You never will

[HurricaneDC]

Originally Posted by thebobs

Forget it. Don't even try to think of figuring them out. You never will

People will crack AES-256 encryption before we come to understand what goes in women's minds

Have a devil-may-care attitude (and if you have a devil-may-care life that's all the better. Boast about how you "knocked up some broad" and don't send child support checks) and you'll be good to go.

[miyu]

women like men who are extremely well dressed or very frumpy. not he who is tidy but does not stand out.