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I have been with with GF over 2 1/2 years- every little lie has snowballed when she is caught. A nude pic her ex had - real story was sex tape. Never had STD turns into 3 different STDs - 2 are active. She lied to me that she was tested many times and always resulted in clean results. Past cocaine abuse, clsimed no prior drug use. Claimed to never experiment sexually then the story of 3some with ex and co-worker female. I guess I cant even believe this as I am writing this. Please just give me supportive feedback for turning my back on her. I walked out, I am not looking back. She is threatening suicide etc..Are people just this sick? I wish I could make this stuff up...
stories not adding up- confronting her then she admits etc
That's why I asked. I don't place value on "rumors" over confronting the issue with the person involved. I don't do the "he/she said" game.
Lying is HUGE because it has cracked the basic foundation of your relationship. If you can't forgive her for things that happened before you (sex tape, threesome) then I don't see much point in addressing the much more serious issues as the STD's and drug usage. Either way, I think a point has been crossed that can't your relationship can't be brought back from. Good luck.
Walk away FAST and never look back. Also get yourself tested to make sure you're clean. She's talking about suicide, don't feel guilty, this is her way of controlling you. Hurry and run now!
"Little white lies"? Sorry, but those are not little white lies. A little white lie is when she throws away your ratty, worn and torn favorite t-shirt that you've had for 25 years and claims she hasn't seen it. What you've shared are some major character flaws.
She put your health at risk for not telling you up front about her STD's. That alone should be enough to drive you in the opposite direction and not look back. The rest of that stuff can be worked out, but not putting your health at stake.
I agree. The things that happened in the past ate history. What was brought into our relationship is open for review and debate. I guess I am just so beside myself, unable to confide in someone over this nightmare of a person.
How would you ever trust her again? Of course, you wouldn't...you are right to leave. Do not feel bad; she brought this on herself.
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