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It's a long story. I know someone I've been involved with on and off for three years - I've never quite trusted him but he says that is about my insecurities.
Anyway, he lives with a roommate and says his roommate doesn't want the phone number given out. He calls me M - F on his work cell. He says he doesn't want another phone. I got sick of everything being on his terms, so I bought him a prepaid cell so I can call HIM when I want to. This afternoon he calls me to tell me he has to help a female friend go negotiate a car purchase. I call him tonight regarding tomorrow night and the phone is off. I feel like an idiot, and maybe I really am. Thoughts most welcome...even if they say You're An Idiot. Oh, and one more teeny tiny detail...he stood me up six weeks ago on a Sunday afternoon after he'd gone to a party alone the night before. He told me he called to cancel. He did not. I even went so far as to check my cell phone records online...no call. What to do, what to do...
Yep, I've know the type. He lies when his lips move.
He is dishonest. He treats you badly. He is seeing other women.
Drop him like a rock. You have wasted 3 years with him. Don't waste another minute of your time on this guy.
Seriously, I dont understand how a relationship lasts 3 months without knowing where its going let alone 3 YEARS!?!? If they have multiple suspicious activies going on they're cheating.
If he says he called, he just might of called and the call didn't get through. Sometimes that happens. Especially with that darn Verizon Wireless.....
I mean I had the same problem with one of my exes and I always thought he was lieing to me. But then he would prove that the signal wouldn't work sometimes when I would call him right in front of him and the darn phone wouldn't get the call till 5 hours later. Your boyfriend might of been outside of the calling area , and the call never registered.
As for the female friend... Well theres nothing wrong with him having friends of the opposite sex. It doesnt mean he is sleeping with her. After all, he could of just told you that he was going to go help out a guy friend instead of a female friend. At least he was honest about that, right?
And as far as his phone being off, you do not know why it is off. You only know it is off. He might of turned it off at work and forgot to turn it back on. Or the signal isn't working again. Or the battery needs recharging. Or, Or, Or.....
You do not have any conclusive evidence to be accusing him of anything, much less dumping him. Do not be insecure. It drives a man away faster than anything you can imagine. I know you think you are not insecure, but maybe you are. Just be confident and you will see that there is a logical explanation for everything. Good luck to both of you.
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Oh, and one more teeny tiny detail...he stood me up six weeks ago on a Sunday afternoon after he'd gone to a party alone the night before. He told me he called to cancel. He did not. I even went so far as to check my cell phone records online...no call. What to do, what to do...
