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Back when I was 40 I had a bad cold and took a bunch of cold medicine. I had not seen my girl friend for two weeks as I had been working out of town. The moment came and I was not responding. She asked me what was up and if I had taken anything. We figured out it was the cold medicine, she then jumped on my face and said get to work.
Back when I was 40 I had a bad cold and took a bunch of cold medicine. I had not seen my girl friend for two weeks as I had been working out of town. The moment came and I was not responding. She asked me what was up and if I had taken anything. We figured out it was the cold medicine, she then jumped on my face and said get to work.
Medical issues, alcohol/drugs, exhaustion, lack of desire, stress, aging...
How about just saying "What about them (insert local team name)?" and watching a movie together?
As was mentioned here, there are other ways to have fun without having Junior directly involved, but if it's an on-going thing then sit down and talk it out.
Every woman, at some point, finds herself in a situation where her man can't get it up. What should a woman do or say in the moment? As women, we always hear what we should never do (like criticize him) but no one advises us on what we should do or say to make him feel better about the event. Advice gents?
I think the hardest part about being in that situation, especially if it's never happened before, is not letting your personal feelings (and possible insecurity) take over and inadvertently making this about you.
I think the best thing to do if it happens is turn it into a hot & heavy make-out session or alternatively lighten it up and inject some silliness along with lots of hugs and cuddling.
if it's happening more than once, a conversation is definitely warranted, but outside the bedroom and never while it's happening.
I've dated a younger guy with a problem. Briefly dated. Told me, it has happened in the past. We laid there and talked. I said, oh that's okay. I just thought it was the first time nerves.
I gave him another try. The soldier, well a partial show. I went home. I tried to turn him into a girlfriend. It lasted for awhile, but he wanted to have sex, so I ended it.
It doesn't matter how good you are at snake charming. If the snake is tired or a sleep, he won't proform.
Every woman, at some point, finds herself in a situation where her man can't get it up. What should a woman do or say in the moment? As women, we always hear what we should never do (like criticize him) but no one advises us on what we should do or say to make him feel better about the event. Advice gents?
Dead fish and fugly should look in the mirror IMO. The it's a "chore" attitude doesn't help either. It's always common to blame the dude. Sometimes things don't open up or get slippery enough either!
Dead fish and fugly should look in the mirror IMO. The it's a "chore" attitude doesn't help either. It's always common to blame the dude. Sometimes things don't open up or get slippery enough either!
Why would he be with her in the first place if she's fugly?
Here are some of the possibilities (and remedies):
advanced age (over 50) = meds
alcohol consumption = sober up
enlarged prostate = meds
he isn't attracted to you anymore = regain your sexy (lose pounds, etc.)
he's cheating = dump the bas-turd/asswipe
he's tired = R&R
he's mad at you = forgive & forget
and the list goes on and on!
Why would he be with her in the first place if she's fugly?
I'm just throwing somethings out there that I have heard over the years. You know, guy to guy talk that ladies WILL NEVER HEAR ABOUT! Guys complaining about wives who doubled in weight, smell like dead fish, butched their hair all off, stuff like that! LMAO If you ladies only know what gets spoken behind closed doors, you would KILL HIM! LMAO
Again, I think it has more to do with the woman than ladies care to admit. How is it a heavier set gal with charisma and spunk can rev a motor, but the drop dead gorgeous one gets old softy on a regular basis? It's not always the guys fault. Don't always blame him. There, I said what all you guys wanted to say. No worries, it's what Ax does!
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