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Old 01-22-2011, 10:11 AM
 
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what women like this their own business. such questions stem from insecurity.
So why did you pose the question??
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Old 01-22-2011, 10:40 AM
 
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one such example is why women question men's liking of big boobs.

Why is this so? is it because less endowed women feel insecure? How can some innocent men's liking/proclivity affect you so?
No, I never have that problem from MY type! In fact THEY know THEY are my type. It's a weakness I have had for years. If you don't fit it.......... well that's probably why you lash out. Jealousy is a b*tch! LOL
http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=...iw=945&bih=449
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Old 01-22-2011, 10:43 AM
 
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Ahhhhh!!! LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lAZgL...eature=related
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Old 01-22-2011, 11:03 AM
 
Location: Denver
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what defines questionable tastes? Is there any objective yardstick to measure the value of an opinion or liking?
Men tend to be very physical. We place altogether too much emphasis on appearances.

Women are also very physical but not as much as men.

I have not seen stats showing that physical attractiveness makes people better partners.....even sexually. If attractive people had more sex, then the world would be populated by attractive people.

I'm pretty physical myself. I also consider that a character weakness.
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Old 01-22-2011, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Metro Phoenix
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Why do guys come on here and ask if women are attracted to money, height, large penises, etc?

I'd wager that most of the questions that people ask in regards to attractiveness are to try to get a guage one what the "man/woman on the street" is looking for in general.

For instance, if someone knows that most women find it unattractive to try to start a conversation with how you just finally finished watching the DVD set of your favorite anime series, they may feel disinclined to do this the next time they're out. They'll likely want to know what they should use as a conversation starter in place of this.

When someone "questions" another's taste, as in they opine that someone's taste is poor, or is a bad idea, or judgement call, they're probably looking to start a dialogue, either with people who agree, or with people who disagree. Could be because they want to learn more about the opposite viewpoint.
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Old 01-22-2011, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Metro Phoenix
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Men tend to be very physical. We place altogether too much emphasis on appearances.

Women are also very physical but not as much as men.

I have not seen stats showing that physical attractiveness makes people better partners.....even sexually. If attractive people had more sex, then the world would be populated by attractive people.

I'm pretty physical myself. I also consider that a character weakness.
I'm extremely physical as well, and I don't necessarily view it as a weakness or a character flaw, so much as my reality. I tried, time and again, to have relations with women whom I only found mildly attractive, because we got along swimmingly.

It just wasn't fair to either of us. Because I liked them as a person, I couldn't stand seeing them in a situation in which she was in a relationship with someone that couldn't take her for all that she was; the fact that I was that guy made it all the worse!

I have certain preferences in terms of ethnicity and body type that, for whatever reason, I simply cannot put aside. I've tried; doesn't work. Attractiveness may not lead to better sex per se, but if there's no attraction, I don't see how the situation can be pleasant physically.
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Old 01-22-2011, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Denver
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Why do guys come on here and ask if women are attracted to money, height, large penises, etc?

I'd wager that most of the questions that people ask in regards to attractiveness are to try to get a guage one what the "man/woman on the street" is looking for in general.

For instance, if someone knows that most women find it unattractive to try to start a conversation with how you just finally finished watching the DVD set of your favorite anime series, they may feel disinclined to do this the next time they're out. They'll likely want to know what they should use as a conversation starter in place of this.

When someone "questions" another's taste, as in they opine that someone's taste is poor, or is a bad idea, or judgement call, they're probably looking to start a dialogue, either with people who agree, or with people who disagree. Could be because they want to learn more about the opposite viewpoint.
OK...I just spent about 10 minutes looking for female commentary on large penises. I didn't find any. I do recall one bold poster recently informing us of her preferences however.
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Old 01-22-2011, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Metro Phoenix
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OK...I just spent about 10 minutes looking for female commentary on large penises. I didn't find any. I do recall one bold poster recently informing us of her preferences however.
More what I meant was that men will periodically ask questions in regards to what women want, and I've seen the big P come up as a conversation here and other places from men. Aaaanyways...
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Old 01-22-2011, 12:35 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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It annoys me. Why? Because it's usually the *single* men going on and on about how important a big rack is on a woman and then in the next breath crying about how they can't find anyone of quality. I think if these men weren't' so shallow they'd find a quality partner.
Some of us would like to just be with you and just love you; whenever we have enough money.
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Old 01-22-2011, 12:53 PM
 
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Some of us would like to just be with you and just love you; whenever we have enough money.
Nah, just be a brunette with some specialized talent (ie music, cars or SOMETHING COOL or interesting) and you HAVE done it! Musicians like Suzanna always have it made in the shade!!!
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