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Old 01-30-2011, 10:10 AM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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I'm not understanding why this would be a big deal. I actually think it's something of a positive. A 27 year old virgin shows he has some self respect, restraint and morals. Would you rather be with a man who'd slept with 5,000 skanks when he was 27? That would turn me off to the point where I wouldn't give him the time of day.

Sounds like you picked a decent, savvy guy!
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:20 AM
 
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I totally agree that I am lucky but nowadays guys being the way they are it is hard to believe when you really experience over the top sex and the guy says it was the first time .I just didint know what to think thats all !!
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:22 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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I totally agree that I am lucky but nowadays guys being the way they are it is hard to believe when you really experience over the top sex and the guy says it was the first time .I just didint know what to think thats all !!
Yep, you just need to enjoy it and stop worrying/wondering.
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:24 AM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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Maxim, do you suspect he's lying that he's a virgin because he was so good in bed right off the bat?
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:28 AM
 
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no i don't believe he is lying but had a little bit hard time believing how good he was and wanted hear some guys opinion .For girls it takes longer to learn and enjoy sex
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:32 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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no i don't believe he is lying but had a little bit hard time believing how good he was and wanted hear some guys opinion .For girls it takes longer to learn and enjoy sex
I don't necessarily agree with that

So if you were to find out that he was really not a virgin, would that change your relationship with him? I mean other than the fact that he lied about it. Would you break up? Stop having sex with him? Guess I'm just wondering why it's such a big deal. For cripes sake, never complain about good sex!
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:35 AM
 
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So it is not unusual !! I am relief cause I dont know many guys that wait that long !!
I'm a little over 30 and still a virgin...not in any great hurry to "lose it" either (I want to share that very first experience, with a hopeful beloved future wife.)
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:41 AM
 
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Well i dont care if he was or wasn't virgin really .Intimacy should be shared with someone you cared and sometimes you think he/ she is the one you will marry but life could have different plans for you,We have plans but life can also have plans for us.I really am honored that he shared with me and we are in a serious relationship and if he would have told me I could have waited also ...
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:42 AM
 
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Well i dont care if he was or wasn't virgin really .Intimacy should be shared with someone you cared and sometimes you think he/ she is the one you will marry but life could have different plans for you,We have plans but life can also have plans for us.I really am honored that he shared with me and we are in a serious relationship and if he would have told me I could have waited also ...
See, right there is all you need to know Good luck!
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:43 AM
 
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I guess being older it doesn not seem unusual to me for a man or woman to be a virgin at such an age. I reckon it was probably more common then than now and when I was young it held no stigma as seems to be attached to it by some folks today. In my mind when something is good you thank god it is so, not question why. Enjoy, Its a short stay and you never know when its going to be check out time.
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