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I met this guy online about 2 months ago, we went out for several great dates, found lots of common things between us, every time he emailed me after the dates will told me how comfortable he felt and how great match we are. He will emailed me at work just want to show me some picture he took during lunch. He will remember what I wanted during the dates and sent me later on...many details that really moved me and he did them in a spontenous way. So at the 4th date I invited him to my place and we watched a movie, and after that we had sex. He left that night since he needs to prepare a birthday party for his mom the next day. After that he didnt contact me for a few days. I emailed him twice and finally he sent me an email and said he is not ready yet.
One detail is in the first email I sent to him I said looks like you are not looking for a serious relationship, but he answered no you misunderstood me.
Anyways...its not because i had sex with him so that i feel an "attached" feeling with him, but i do miss those great times we had before.
What I want to know is should i send him an email telling him that I really miss him and would like to know if he still want to continue? Is it too needy or too naive to ignore what he said?
let him pursue you. Especially after the first time you have sex. He's expecting you to get all crazy attached at this point, don't give him that, yet.
I met this guy online about 2 months ago, we went out for several great dates, found lots of common things between us, every time he emailed me after the dates will told me how comfortable he felt and how great match we are. He will emailed me at work just want to show me some picture he took during lunch. He will remember what I wanted during the dates and sent me later on...many details that really moved me and he did them in a spontenous way. So at the 4th date I invited him to my place and we watched a movie, and after that we had sex. He left that night since he needs to prepare a birthday party for his mom the next day. After that he didnt contact me for a few days. I emailed him twice and finally he sent me an email and said he is not ready yet.
One detail is in the first email I sent to him I said looks like you are not looking for a serious relationship, but he answered no you misunderstood me.
Anyways...its not because i had sex with him so that i feel an "attached" feeling with him, but i do miss those great times we had before.
What I want to know is should i send him an email telling him that I really miss him and would like to know if he still want to continue? Is it too needy or too naive to ignore what he said?
Send him an email telling you to get in touch when he is "ready". Pining after him will not work.
You had sex and now he is over it. The chase is over and he isn't that into you. I am sorry, but if I was you I would probably try to move on.
yeah...this is what confused me...looks like he is not the type looking for ONS....but turns out he might be one!! oh well....I had these two thoughts battling in my head, one saying yeah forget about this jerk, the other goes you should at least let him know you still miss him....
Again there's going to be a whole spectrum of opinions on this topic...get ready for..
..You gave up the milk too soon.
..He's a playah, you been playd!
..he's just sorting out his feelings because I sense your a fantastic gal who any male would be lucky to get(by one of those online guys who says uplifting things to every woman online in hopes...)
...let him pursue you(oops already posted)
I met this guy online about 2 months ago, we went out for several great dates, found lots of common things between us, every time he emailed me after the dates will told me how comfortable he felt and how great match we are. He will emailed me at work just want to show me some picture he took during lunch. He will remember what I wanted during the dates and sent me later on...many details that really moved me and he did them in a spontenous way. So at the 4th date I invited him to my place and we watched a movie, and after that we had sex. He left that night since he needs to prepare a birthday party for his mom the next day. After that he didnt contact me for a few days. I emailed him twice and finally he sent me an email and said he is not ready yet.
One detail is in the first email I sent to him I said looks like you are not looking for a serious relationship, but he answered no you misunderstood me.
Anyways...its not because i had sex with him so that i feel an "attached" feeling with him, but i do miss those great times we had before.
What I want to know is should i send him an email telling him that I really miss him and would like to know if he still want to continue? Is it too needy or too naive to ignore what he said?
Your mistake was having sex with him.
The mystery is over.
He's probably lost interest.
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