question for the ladies: what if you were 27 and the guy you were dating was 24? (younger, kids)

[jeepgirl27]

Originally Posted by isaackko

I "met" this girl online Monday. We're meeting in person on Friday.

I'm 24 and a few months, she just turned 27.

I don't care about the age difference at all, but I think she might. Would you care/have cared about that difference at that age?

My boyfriend is 4 years younger than me..but I look younger, I could pass for my 20's..so its all good

[Ankhharu]

Depends on the person. Some don't care about any age difference. Go no the date and try to have a good time. I doubt it's bothering her if she knows your age but has still decided to go out with you. Just go and have fun, don't worry about something you can't change such as your age.

[D217]

I dated a 25yr old when I was 28. It was fun for a while, but eventually, the closer I got to 30, I felt I needed a more mature relationship...

Mainly because he ended up living back with his parents and couldn't hold a steady job.

But if you have your sh** together, it shouldn't be a problem.

[donie1]

No, I've dated 10 and 12 y.o. younger then me. I wasn't looking for anyone younger, it just happened. Since then, I don't look at age but the person.

[sun queen]

If only...

[purehuman]

Originally Posted by isaackko

I "met" this girl online Monday. We're meeting in person on Friday.

I'm 24 and a few months, she just turned 27.

I don't care about the age difference at all, but I think she might. Would you care/have cared about that difference at that age?

What age difference???????

[isaackko]

Originally Posted by purehuman

What age difference???????

the 3 year age difference. I would think that *some* women would find that to be quite a lot at younger ages.

[isaackko]

Originally Posted by D217

But if you have your sh** together, it shouldn't be a problem.

oh oh oh, she said that I did (as opposed to other "local" guys).

[cdubs3201]

She's 3 years older than you? Nope, doesn't work, never in the history of the world has a 3 year age difference where the woman is older ever worked out. Every woman is also issued a date card by the government listing out parameters of who they can date, and 3 years younger is in specific violation.

Sorry bro, looks like you'll just have to move on and find a different girl...

[Ablees8951]

Just meet her and see how things go. I wouldn't go searching for a younger man bc I have my life together and its more typical that men in their early 20's don't have their lives together the way I do. But that's different for each person. I'm not saying young men don't have their lives together I'm just saying for me it doesn't usually work. Best of luck on your date!