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Is this really necessary? If you don't believe the OP - fine. You have said so. To continue with posts like this is unnecessary and achieves nothing. What can she do to convince you? Nothing because this is the Internet and every single thread could or could not not be true and we have no way of knowing.
Otherwise this thread is going to degenerate into a back and forth over its validity which really helps no one.
well lets see after being together for 4 years I know his habits well.
we also knew that if we listened long enough it would go live where people are talking.
that part I didn't expect to hear but the suggestions of others to snoop helped me figure out who it was so thanks to them for that and give me solid proof that no matter what he said ...its time to move on.
believe it or not internet radio is a popular thing and listening in only requires a link and in my case itunes.
and of course knowing where they will list the links to various webcasts for that event..normally its only one and i had that bookmarked because I used to listen to his shows.
pretty much this thread is over and it has been educational for some.
I am moving on with my life now and I'll admit I'm feeling pretty sick over it but that is normal.
I am soooooo thankful to those who suggested snooping I can't thank them enough for that slap to reality to stop sitting here feeling sorry but dig out the dirt.
I'm sure you have a lot of trolls on these boards so I do understand 100% our cancer support chat was always getting people faking illness.
one thing I don't have is munchausen by internet syndrome look it up its pretty sad what some do for attention.
I will be back there and gawd its gonna be rough telling my support friends about this...but we have so many who need support there it will be quickly put aside..to help those who have it so much worse than my pain of the heart.
Its called pay it forward because you've been there
Hey, I am usually one of the first to be skeptical about dramatic threads, but in your case it all rang very true, so I am a believer.
I am glad you snooped, I always recommend that. I am a regular reader/poster at marriagebuilders.com, and the infidelity boards there are extremely educational about how to handle the situation when you discover cheating. Snoooping is a first step, because of the reasons you discovered.
What is so interesting, yet pathetic, is how every single cheating spouse is working from from the same textbook, right down to the gaslighting and the script. It really is quite astounding.
Hey, I am usually one of the first to be skeptical about dramatic threads, but in your case it all rang very true, so I am a believer.
I am glad you snooped, I always recommend that. I am a regular reader/poster at marriagebuilders.com, and the infidelity boards there are extremely educational about how to handle the situation when you discover cheating. Snoooping is a first step, because of the reasons you discovered.
What is so interesting, yet pathetic, is how every single cheating spouse is working from from the same textbook, right down to the gaslighting and the script. It really is quite astounding.
Yes....you're right....most of them are pathetically similar, aren't they? Also in common is the belief they share that their current mate (the one their cheating on), is far too stupid to know how to catch them. They all think they're so incredibly clever...the smart one in the relationship. LOL
I could tell her husband but I seriously believe in karma and it will bite her in the ass. I just can't inflict this type of pain on her family she has kids younger than my 17 year old son...12 maybe and probably my sons age i think.
I did send her a facebook message(like and email) telling her what I thought of them both and of his fate and yep even what he said about her being a bigun...I know mean spirited someone please put me in the corner on timeout for a bit.
I told her don't worry I'm not going to contact either of you again but I'd like her to know what her little game with my live in boyfriend of 4 years caused him to suffer.
I also told her I hope her kids never felt the pain my son is feeling right now and her husband either.
I'm positive sure no husband in his right mind is gong to let his wife spend 4 nights in a hotel with a man from high school willingly...am I wrong here guys?
Ok off to my corner on timeout
if you all have not read this best of craigslist letter some lady posted to a girl its totally funny reading but I feel her pain the poor thing.
I'm glad someone else is confused. I am confused about the live radio broadcast where he told his secret mistress that he loved her on the air, which was then available to anyone with an internet conneciton. Doesnt this seem really weird? The rest of the thread I more or less understand.
Yeah, I want to know how she did that too. You can listen in to someone's phone conversation, I know that. But to listen to someone's conversation in a room through itunes? Can someone enlighten me of this neat trick please?
Seems nobody is going to want the cheater now...good going girl !
EDIT : I realize you didn't write it...just wanted to clarify...
i can't post the links in public but I will email you wannalive with the stuff and you can come back and tell the how busted he is.
Its just this is an anonymous forum and not to be linked or have him come at me in anger when he has accepted my request to leave without being violent.
they made their bed now they can both live with themselves and lie in them.
right now wanna he's pretty much dissing her because he got what he wanted which goes to show his mean streak vouch for that too will ya..hugs
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