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Old 03-28-2011, 11:59 AM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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Aged 18-35, Big ****, long hair, cute face, big eyes, tight butt, nice figure.

And yeah, this is not politically correct, we're supposed to say we like this or that kinda personality etc, but I bet you anything 95% of men will be turned on simply by seeing a babe with the above description if they met her in her bikini on the beach.

That's true looks are definately what get you in the door or initially spark interest. However, how far it goes from there has a lot to do with personality and who the person is at their core. I hate how alot of the world perceives good looking people automatically as high maintenance. Anyone can be high maintenance if they have someone who will put up with it. It makes people weary to bother with good looking people and it is unfair. There are high mainetenance people in all genders and all people wheather their good looking or not. Some of the nicest people I've ever met were very good looking people. My current gf is gorgeous and not just from my eyes. She is very intelligent and she is a social worker. She cares deeply about humanity as well as I do. But women can be mean to good looking women because of insecurities and men can lose friends over being good looking as well. I have many friends who stopped inviting me over to their house once they got a gf because their girl was overly talking to me and ignoring their bf. Now, I would never get with a friends girl. This has been something that has troubled me throughout my life. However, I can understand that even if I would never get with a friends girl, just them knowing that their girl digs you is enough to avoid you. People do what they often think they have to do to protect their family. I understand that. But it took me alot of years to understand that. Because I don't go around thinking I am the sh t. I had some friendships of many years that just bizzarely ended from what I described, yet it took me years to figure out why. Being good looking has many downfalls, especially on the friend front.
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Old 03-28-2011, 02:02 PM
 
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That's true looks are definately what get you in the door or initially spark interest. However, how far it goes from there has a lot to do with personality and who the person is at their core. I hate how alot of the world perceives good looking people automatically as high maintenance. Anyone can be high maintenance if they have someone who will put up with it. It makes people weary to bother with good looking people and it is unfair. There are high mainetenance people in all genders and all people wheather their good looking or not. Some of the nicest people I've ever met were very good looking people. My current gf is gorgeous and not just from my eyes. She is very intelligent and she is a social worker. She cares deeply about humanity as well as I do. But women can be mean to good looking women because of insecurities and men can lose friends over being good looking as well. I have many friends who stopped inviting me over to their house once they got a gf because their girl was overly talking to me and ignoring their bf. Now, I would never get with a friends girl. This has been something that has troubled me throughout my life. However, I can understand that even if I would never get with a friends girl, just them knowing that their girl digs you is enough to avoid you. People do what they often think they have to do to protect their family. I understand that. But it took me alot of years to understand that. Because I don't go around thinking I am the sh t. I had some friendships of many years that just bizzarely ended from what I described, yet it took me years to figure out why. Being good looking has many downfalls, especially on the friend front.
You know the thread is about what's sexy, not what is relationship material or not...
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Old 03-28-2011, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Aged 18-35, Big ****, long hair, cute face, big eyes, tight butt, nice figure.

And yeah, this is not politically correct, we're supposed to say we like this or that kinda personality etc, but I bet you anything 95% of men will be turned on simply by seeing a babe with the above description if they met her in her bikini on the beach.
Well, my husband would probably say big tatas.
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Old 03-28-2011, 03:15 PM
 
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Ah a bit of a confusing title when you read it too fast. Like a cyber brain freeze, but the premise of the thread is exactly what the title holds it to be.

Define characteristics (or habits, whichever) to describe what "sexy" is to you in the opposite sex.
Seeing a man hold and comfort a baby or toddler is incredibly sexy to me. That act alone opens the window to tender side of his personality. I find a man committed to spouse and family very masculine and sexy (however, I don't poach other women's men; I admire from a ladylike distance) The guy who volunteers to mow his elderly neighbor's lawn on a hot Saturday afternoon? Very sexy, in a Knight-In-Shining Armor kind of way. And in the physical realm, if he enters the house, perspiring after a long hard day's work, that's a virile, sexy turn on. A man in a nice fitting white tshirt or white tailored shirt is sexy. Lastly a man who is an expert kisser is sexy, because it suggests to me that he knows something about how to be sensual.
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Old 03-28-2011, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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You know the thread is about what's sexy, not what is relationship material or not...

Ok, I'll agree. I guess I got off topic. I stayed more on topic in my first post. My bad. I guess I'm windbagging it today..
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Old 03-28-2011, 03:48 PM
 
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I have tried this before on CD, and it is difficult to explain. A man who is a man, not a boy. One who is tender, yet strong. One who just makes my toes curl without a word. He has that spark in his eye...and he is funny and intelligent.
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Old 03-29-2011, 07:00 AM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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An open smile, bright eyes, intelligent, a libido.
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:19 AM
 
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Now if you could only define THAT!
Someone who can be put on the spot and would know what to do without hesitation. I like someone that can come up with wild and crazy ideas.

Really hot day? Like someone who can come up with beach football or something great like that. Creative, fun, innovative, original, and to the point. It goes a long way for me at least. My current girlfriend is like that, she's got all kinds of crazy ideas and we normally have a great deal of fun with them too.
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:32 AM
 
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Well, my husband would probably say big tatas.
I think mine would too...unfortunately!
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:33 AM
 
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I have tried this before on CD, and it is difficult to explain. A man who is a man, not a boy. One who is tender, yet strong. One who just makes my toes curl without a word. He has that spark in his eye...and he is funny and intelligent.
+1, particularly to the "man" not a "boy" part. I get that one for sure!
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