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For guys:
What is too high of a number of past sexual partners for a girl you may be interested in perusing a relationship with? Is there some sort of mental cut off point?
What is considered a slutty #, versus a girl whose experienced, vs a "good" girl?
Do you believe in partners getting tested for STD's? Using your logic, you wouldn't because you think people don't deserve to know about their partner's past
Well, no, if we're going to be logical, STD testing is about the present. A test for chlamydia or gonorrhea won't tell me if my partner has EVER had it, only if he has it now. HIV, HPV and herpes are of course past/present cases, so I will agree with you, somewhat, here.
As far as I'm concerned there's not single human being on the planet who can be trusted to honestly answer this question in person. That's why I stopped asking. Everyone always modifies their answer to suit the situation or to escape judgement. If you were with someone who really accepted you for who you are, why would you feel compelled to lie about it?
Sorry, I don't want to get on a soapbox or anything here, but I'm an open/honest person and it bothers me when A: people intentionally lie about things and B: people pass knee-jerk judgements based on things like someone else's "number".
Did I just contradict myself? Crap, see what happens when I get all riled up? I need a nap . . .
As far as I'm concerned there's not single human being on the planet who can be trusted to honestly answer this question in person. That's why I stopped asking. Everyone always modifies their answer to suit the situation or to escape judgement. If you were with someone who really accepted you for who you are, why would you feel compelled to lie about it?
Sorry, I don't want to get on a soapbox or anything here, but I'm an open/honest person and it bothers me when A: people intentionally lie about things and B: people pass knee-jerk judgements based on things like someone else's "number".
Did I just contradict myself? Crap, see what happens when I get all riled up? I need a nap . . .
I always answer this question honestly! "It's none of your business, and it's only our second date!"
As far as I'm concerned there's not single human being on the planet who can be trusted to honestly answer this question in person. That's why I stopped asking. Everyone always modifies their answer to suit the situation or to escape judgement. If you were with someone who really accepted you for who you are, why would you feel compelled to lie about it?
Sorry, I don't want to get on a soapbox or anything here, but I'm an open/honest person and it bothers me when A: people intentionally lie about things and B: people pass knee-jerk judgements based on things like someone else's "number".
Did I just contradict myself? Crap, see what happens when I get all riled up? I need a nap . . .
Haha - Caught yourself! Not a single human being who would tell the truth about it? Does that mean you have lied about it? I have never lied about it. So if you haven't lied about it, that makes at least two of us.
For guys:
What is too high of a number of past sexual partners for a girl you may be interested in perusing a relationship with? Is there some sort of mental cut off point?
What is considered a slutty #, versus a girl whose experienced, vs a "good" girl?
What is the desired number?
I do not see this a point to consider today. Women and men have the same right to bed anytime they want and as many as they want. So if a woman is considered a **** after whatever number so is the guy.
Also whatever the woman did before dating the present guy is past and the same about him. They are starting a new relationship and they go from there.
So a girl is "good" based on how many sex partners she had? Not on her character? Interesting, take care.
And vice versa. The past is the past, what matters is the present, and whether the two of you have a future.
Of course, even the importance of the latter is questionable, according to some.
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Not a single human being who would tell the truth about it? Does that mean you have lied about it? I have never lied about it. So if you haven't lied about it, that makes at least two of us. 
