Really hot new girl at work, need some advice (woman, attracted, friends)
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the boy is attracted to this cute new girl... apart from figuring out whether she's single or not, i see nothing wrong with this. maybe if she works in the same department and is closely associated at work, it's a bad idea. if not, then i dont see anything wrong with it.
He asked how I would feel. I explained how I would feel. You may feel differently.
I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee for her on her first day, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply
I think your approach is good- being friendly without showing any romantic interest, especially since you wouldn't want to put her in an uncomfortable situation. The coffee sounds good too. Again, every girl is different and some may take it as you coming on to her, but as long as you're not being flirty, it could be seen as a friendly, welcoming gesture. I personally would like it, regardless if I had interest in the guy or not.
the boy is attracted to this cute new girl... apart from figuring out whether she's single or not, i see nothing wrong with this. maybe if she works in the same department and is closely associated at work, it's a bad idea. if not, then i dont see anything wrong with it.
Take it from a corporate veteran of 10 years
"Really hot new girls" who join your team are:
a) Married
OR
b) Have a boyfriend
OR
c) happen to be lesbian
If she is none of the above, she joins another team in the same office space where you wish at least once a day she were in yours
There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff.
I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee for her on her first day, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply
Your post to me reeks, of the fact that you will come on too strong.
Often neither gender likes that. Yeah and if shes that hot as you say, chances are she is already taken.
Your post to me reeks, of the fact that you will come on too strong.
I don't think it's coming on too strong at all. He's asking about being friendly and helping her on her first day, there's nothing wrong with that. It's something a female co-worker could do and it'd be ok.
There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff.
I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee for her on her first day, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply
You're stupid for being interested in a woman at work.
But if you want to get falsley accused of sexual harrassment and risk losing your job, then don't let me stop you
Those of you who are telling this guy to show interest in this girl at work are trying to get this guy fired.
Unfortunately, women are much more secure in the workplace than men.
If you know what's best for you, find somewhere else to meet women bro.
I once worked somewhere where there was this fine lady who definitely liked me. I chose no to pursue it because NO woman is worth me losing my job.
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no worries
