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Please do not expose yourself to a harassment complaint. LEAVE HER ALONE.
So the guy cant even think about approaching her without thinking its harrasment? Besides its only harrasment if she doesnt like him (just the way it is), if she's feeling him then its all good
There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff.
I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee for her on her first day, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply
Just treat her like a living, breathing co-worker, not a life support system for a pair of boobs.
And DO NOT...I repeat DO NOT...buy her coffee, a doughnut, or anything else. What? Are you an idiot? She's going to be on her guard for exactly that kind of stuff. Here she is trying to make a good first impression and you're already hitting on her? What on earth makes you think she's going to be receptive, even if she likes the cut of your jib?
Be helpful. Be friendly. But don't loiter around her workstation, awed by her transcendent beauty. Women can detect that kind of nonsense in an instant. And always proceed with serious caution before dating a co-worker of any description. Unless she is your soulmate for life, unless the bonds that attract you two are obvious, I'd hold off. Because if an office romance goes bust, it does more than make the two of you miserable. It could potentially ruin both of your careers.
So the guy cant even think about approaching her without thinking its harrasment? Besides its only harrasment if she doesnt like him (just the way it is), if she's feeling him then its all good
Say he approaches her and she refuses to go out with him. Anything after that it is harrassment.
you must be hot...oh wait am i harrassing you?...lol..j/k
I am not hot. You can say I am exotic (racially) and some not that smart people believe women from my etnicity are "wild in bed"
Saying "you are hot" is not harrassing.
Harrassment is if you see me not making an effort to be friends with you, and you keep staring at me, breathing really hard on my presence, following me around, trying to smell me, etc. for months!!!! Specially in a job situation.
But just saying you are hot is not harrassment (I am not, trust me. )
I am not hot. You can say I am exotic (racially) and some not that smart people believe women from my etnicity are "wild in bed"
Saying "you are hot" is not harrassing.
Harrassment is if you see me not making an effort to be friends with you, and you keep staring at me, breathing really hard on my presence, following me around, trying to smell me, etc. for months!!!! Specially in a job situation.
But just saying you are hot is not harrassment (I am not, trust me. )
This guy will come after me at the kitchen in my prev job and he would LITERALLY SMELL ME.
I do not know how else to put it, he would make a point to SMELL me every morning and then just whisper "HMMMMMMMMMMMMMM"
UGH
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