I have an issue with my gf's past promiscuity

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by Yzette

You are jealous. This is because you are insecure.

You are insecure because you have chosen to get with a woman whom you KNOW to be a cheater.

It is so simple, isn't it. OP, you are not going to get a better answer to your question than this.

[robee70]

Originally Posted by Yzette

No, there is absolutely, positively no validation in your anger. Although feelings themselves are neither right nor wrong--they just are--you are getting entirely too bent out of shape about this. Goose, gander, pot, kettle, etc.

You are jealous. This is because you are insecure.

You are insecure because you have chosen to get with a woman whom you KNOW to be a cheater.

And you then have the audacity to condemn her for behaving just like you, with dropping her pants at nearly every invitation?

Really?

I can't even recommend therapy. What you need is a good dose of maturity, and that is something that some people never attain because it requires a good bit of self-reflection. As you are hung up on making this all about how "wrong" she is, methinks that self-reflection will be a long time coming.

Harsh? Yes. But I call'em as I see'em and frankly, if you want to make things right in the cosmos you would take yourself out of the dating pool until you grow the heck up.

Can't rep you, but that about sums it up.

[TaoistDude]

I don't understand why this rises to the level of an issue. If you don't respect her, then move on! It's really very simple

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Yzette

No, there is absolutely, positively no validation in your anger. Although feelings themselves are neither right nor wrong--they just are--you are getting entirely too bent out of shape about this. Goose, gander, pot, kettle, etc.

You are jealous. This is because you are insecure.

You are insecure because you have chosen to get with a woman whom you KNOW to be a cheater.

And you then have the audacity to condemn her for behaving just like you, with dropping her pants at nearly every invitation?

Really?

I can't even recommend therapy. What you need is a good dose of maturity, and that is something that some people never attain because it requires a good bit of self-reflection. As you are hung up on making this all about how "wrong" she is, methinks that self-reflection will be a long time coming.

Harsh? Yes. But I call'em as I see'em and frankly, if you want to make things right in the cosmos you would take yourself out of the dating pool until you grow the heck up.

I REALLY hope he comes back and rereads the bolded parts, several times. He really needs to get this. Good job