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A lot of them aren't interested in relationships (or haven't found the "right one"). What would make them be interested in relationships (not with the sex buddy, of course)?
For example, at my college of the girls are sex buddies with the hot athletes or some other highly attractive men. Each of them probably have a few girls as sex buddies.
The situation seems very good for girls because they get to have sex with the hottest guys on campus.
How can less attractive guys, albiet more interested in relationships, like me even compete? When or how do women decide whether to have relationships or sex buddies?
I feel like 10% of the men are having sex with 50% of the women.
Sure, call me a complainer. But, my biggest advantage (personality) is useless when women are interested in just sex buddies.
I stated before I used me..as my playtoys..Im an adult and can do what I want..I never brought it to my home...
But ok..I had very good looking men that were my sex-buddies...
Just because they were men I slept with doesn't mean I wanted to have a relationship with them..I knew the type of man I wanted.
The guy I'm dating now..has such confidence even tho he is so shy.
When we first met he thought he was outta my league..
I like brainy men..Someone you can have a conversation with.
My boyfriend isn't Mr.GQ...but he is beautiful to me.
You have to look at a persons heart..because looks only go so far...
How can less attractive guys, albiet more interested in relationships, like me even compete? When or how do women decide whether to have relationships or sex buddies?
Why would you want to compete? Ewww.
Even if you have to wait until you are 30 to have sex, it will be so much better than all the sex the buddies are having put together.
Some of you seem to know alot about other peoples personal circumstances and motives for releasing sexual tension. Id love to hear your theories behind what kind of ewwww, ho, insecurities, lack of choices, vaginal infections, worn out liars women are based on there preference of toys, stimulation or how often they masturbate.
Nice. And, maybe, having f-buddies is her way of screening for potential partners (albeit completely opposite of convential courting).
You know, I have nothing against unconventional courting and sex. I do it very rarely between relationships (very few men excite me really and I need that), but when I do, it's usually very early on, often immediately. However, just because I happened to like you and happened to want to have sex with you, and even might have potential future plans in mind doesn't mean I'll put up with unacceptable behavior on your part on a regular basis. That sex will be taken away from you just as easy as it was given to you when I felt like it. I like sex OK, but not to the point of welcoming bums in the wee hours of the night and provide them with relief like some blow-up doll. No way, Jose.
The girl I'm dating right now said she had a FWB (more like a sex buddy IMO). I'm just wondering if girls who've had sex buddies in the past are "damaged goods".
She didn't have a relationship for the past 2 years so I don't understand what motivated her to want a relationship now.
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