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Arrogance is probably the #1 turn off in men for me; I can bring a guy out of his shell if he's a little shy. But arrogance?? I LOATHE it in anybody...
Out of those two, I would say arrogance. BUT I know some men who act arrogant almost all the time but later (like if they aren't surrounded by the people they are trying to impress, maybe) I find out they are really, really timid. So I don't know what's worse: the real arrogance or the fake arrogance.