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I have to think the person is attractive in some manner... otherwise, I won't be turned on. Usually, it's the whole package tho... many things have to work in order for me to have sex with someone.. so... there has to be a personality, an emotional bond of SOME sort and I have to find them at least somewhat attractive.
It's quite complicated when you think about it... it's a lot of moving parts.
Could You Have Sexual Encounter with Someone You Don't Find Attractive?
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Originally Posted by f1000
Could You Have Sexual Encounter with Someone You Don't Find Attractive?
Probably not. If I don't find someone physically attractive, then I certainly am not going to want to cuddle and kiss with them, let alone have sex with them. What an odd question to ask...
I probably did when I was younger. It's kind of catch 22 when your are a sexually charged up 19 year old. I was immediately attracted to some one I met at a bar or party. Went out with them a bit, then realized their faults as time went by.
At 39 its just the opposite, I'm probably going to meet them, talk to them and go slowly, rather then jumping into a relationship right off the bat.
Nope. There has to be some degree of physical attraction. There are women who I find physcially attractive that I wouldn't want to have sex with either because their personalities are hideous but I guess that's another thread topic.
Prostitutes and gold diggers have sex with men they are not physically attracted to all of the time. For example do you think most of the 20 something year olds having sex with the 85 year old Hugh Hefner feel any physical attraction towards him ? Heck no most of them don't. Most of them only have sex with him because he makes more money in 1 year than they will in their entire lifetime.
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