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Scenario: You're out on a date with a woman you've known for a while. After the date, you decide to take a walk through the park. She's kind of giving hints (brushing her hand on yours or touching your arm). Toward the end of the walk, you stop near the lake to talk. She moves in a bit closer and kisses you (on the mouth).
Would men find this too aggressive or a turn-off? Do men always want to make the first move (first kiss)?
I need some more information about this scenario. You're already out on a date. And you hint it's not a first date. So she finally got sick of you waiting to make a move at your tortoise pace, even though you admit she was sending up rescue flares, and now she's a brazen hussy for doing it? Did I miss anything?
It depends on the woman who is attempting the kiss and in what manner it is attempted. There are things that a woman can do that are traditionally reserved for the man. However, if that line is crossed a woman will be judged by the manner in which she does them. If the woman mimicks masculine mannerisms in the process she will lose allure. If she does things in a feminine delicate manner which conveys femininity she will come accross as lovable-huggable, and cute. It all depends. A brazen unexpected wet kiss on the mouth is definitely not feminine. A quick shy peck on lips or the cheek is. The same applies to all other such gestures.
Scenario: You're out on a date with a woman you've known for a while. After the date, you decide to take a walk through the park. She's kind of giving hints (brushing her hand on yours or touching your arm). Toward the end of the walk, you stop near the lake to talk. She moves in a bit closer and kisses you (on the mouth).
Would men find this too aggressive or a turn-off? Do men always want to make the first move (first kiss)?
It all depends on what sort of relationship the woman (or man) wants. If she is fine with being a casual sexual fling or FWB, then making a first move like that is fine. However, if she is hoping to become his serious girlfriend with the potential for marriage, then I would think that move too aggressive. If sex is too much on her agenda, most guys would only consider a woman like that just a sexual partner, not a romantic one.
Scenario: You're out on a date with a woman you've known for a while. After the date, you decide to take a walk through the park. She's kind of giving hints (brushing her hand on yours or touching your arm). Toward the end of the walk, you stop near the lake to talk. She moves in a bit closer and kisses you (on the mouth).
Would men find this too aggressive or a turn-off? Do men always want to make the first move (first kiss)?
Well, considering the fact that I can't read "subtle" signals, I would actually find that just perfect.
See normally I'm in favor of men making the first move, yet with my SO it was me.
We had gotten along so well with our online correspondence, then are phone calls, and then our first date went on until we were kicked out, then we talked in the parking lot for an hour...... I was thinking "damn, what if all this is so great, and we wait for a kiss and it sucks??!!". And it was obvious he was nervous trying to decide... so I grabbed him by the lapels and gave him a whopper of a kiss.
He returned in kind, and later told me he was so nervous on deciding what to do and was so happy (ok, the terms he used were a little more explicit) that I did that. So far, so good.
If he's attracted to her, she can do just about everything short of raping him. He won't be turned off.
That's kind of the bottom line, isn't it?
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