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I think planning little out-of-the-ordinary things to look forward to can help. Maybe take turns planning something you want to share with the other.
Last weekend, a friend invited me out water biking. I wasn't sure about it at first, but since we did it, it's the only thing I can think about now. Can't wait to go again. Definitely makes life a little more exciting.
And sometimes - most of the times, in my experience - the unplanned adventure is just what the doc ordered. That rush, that thrill, like it's your first time ...
... wandering around the world, having exotic adventures at random ...
... sort of an X-Rated National Geographic ... bare-breast pics and all ...
From time to time relationships can become a little mundane and routine feeling. What do you do when this happens in your relationship?
We haven't had much time over the last few years for things to get mundane or to even hang out so much. Now, the dh is graduated and hopefully the plans we'd like to manifest will come to fruition. This might sound dorky to many, but we're setting up a chemistry night. He wanted it to be weekly. I wanted monthly, so we settled for biweekly. We're both chemists, so we want to educate and hone our theoretical skills so we don't get rusty in areas we don't use in the day to day.
We're both DJ's, so we want to have a regular night spinning together. We're trying to have a baby right now, so that end of things doesn't need attention. I would love to take more dance classes and become ball room dancing partners, but my baby just doesn't move that way.
Make plans to go somewhere different or something we don't do often.
Go out to lunch together during the work week. Surprise him with tickets to see a sport. Go to a signing of his fav. Player. Take a day off of work to make time for you and him.
Oh, this is good. But I know, I know!
You could just go take a "fat chick" out to lunch! Then, when you're done, you go home and you tell your wife all about it!!
Now, talk about your "spice life," she'd be hotter and spicier than a jar of cayenne pepper!
Here's another idea. Surprise your spouse by bringing a third person into the bedroom. Things will get quite lively very quickly. As in screaming, unyielding objects thrown at your head, and broadsides fired at one another by divorce attorneys.
You could just go take a "fat chick" out to lunch! Then, when you're done, you go home and you tell your wife all about it!!
Now, talk about your "spice life," she'd be hotter and spicier than a jar of cayenne pepper!
Hahahaha.....or that.
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I would love to take more dance classes and become ball room dancing partners, but my baby just doesn't move that way.
