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Old 09-01-2011, 12:36 PM
 
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Very cute girl with a great body and I were in the same small group yesterday. She laughed at just about everything I said.

Unlike the last girl, how do I not ********** up? I assume there is some type of interest there from her, be it friends or more.
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Old 09-01-2011, 01:18 PM
 
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Very cute girl . . . I assume . . .
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Old 09-01-2011, 01:39 PM
 
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Seriously...

Did you even listen to anything she said or just stare at her body and bask in laughter you assumed was with you and not at you?

You don't even know her so I don't know what you are afraid of messing up. You could totally hate her and she could be a cheating skank. How about you bother getting to know who she is before actually bothering with any other mess?
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Old 09-01-2011, 01:48 PM
 
Location: Visitation between Wal-Mart & Home Depot
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Very cute girl with a great body and I were in the same small group yesterday. She laughed at just about everything I said.

Unlike the last girl, how do I not ********** up? I assume there is some type of interest there from her, be it friends or more.
You're probably going to wind up effing this up because your attitude is counterproductive. If you're trying to not **** up (as opposed to trying to do it right) you're not going to be yourself, you're going to be tentative when you should be aggressive, you're going to be guarded when you should be open and you're going to try to force something when you should be going with the flow.

The best way to do it right is to be comfortable with yourself and draw confidence from the fact that you know you have worth. If you don't believe in yourself then you are wearing stank cologne and putting out the "Heisman me" vibe.
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Old 09-01-2011, 02:07 PM
 
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You could probably just go re-read your other thread.

Same advice, jokes, and face palming applies.
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Old 09-01-2011, 02:19 PM
 
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The reason I said "help me not mess this up" was in jest, as I messed up the last one (apparently)

D217 - your "schtick" is over now.
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Old 09-01-2011, 02:33 PM
 
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Ask her out, in the manner suggested by that Fairfax guy. What do you have to lose?
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Old 09-01-2011, 02:45 PM
 
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D217 - your "schtick" is over now.
Oh thank God, what a relief...
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Old 09-01-2011, 03:35 PM
 
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Very cute girl with a great body and I were in the same small group yesterday. She laughed at just about everything I said.

Unlike the last girl, how do I not ********** up? I assume there is some type of interest there from her, be it friends or more.
All you need to do is ask her out. Once. Ask her out for right then. Do it at the end of class (is that the group you were in yesterday when she was laughing?). Say, "Hey, I'm grabbing a coffee. Want to come?" and that's it.
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Old 09-01-2011, 03:45 PM
 
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Read every single word written to you in your other thread about the flake girl from "SomeGuyInFairfax".

Absorb those words. LIVE those words. Become those words.

If you do as he tells you to do, in that post of his, you will NOT f this up.

That is, if there actually IS a chemistry there. Make sure there is a chemistry. You seem to be interested...give it a little bit and see if she's interested. If it looks like she is, (laughing at everything you say is a good start), then do what SomeGuyInFairfax said in that other thread.

Capice?
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