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Old 09-03-2011, 03:00 AM
 
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the reason is : he flirts with EVERY WOMEN even mutual friends.

yesterday i saw him flirted with our mutual friend through internet. he said "i want to hug you all night, kiss you....." bleh bleh bleh...

it is not the first time happen , he flirts with EVERY WOMAN as long as the woman is not ugly.

so i talked to him yesterday, he said it is innocent , nothing serious. i am too immature too handle it .

but i just coudln't take it anymore, it happens all the time, it won't stop.

so i broke up with him, feeling sad.

guys, pls tell me , am i really immature to handle it?? it that a right choice to break up with him?
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Old 09-03-2011, 03:15 AM
 
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You do sound like you have some growing up to do but not insofar as handling this situation. You did the right thing dumping him. Don't look back, what you describe is hardly innocent flirting and he is trash.
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Old 09-03-2011, 03:38 AM
 
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It is a little late to ask that. At first blush and the one post. I think it was a wise choice. Don't look back. Move forward.
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Old 09-03-2011, 04:44 AM
 
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yeah , still feeling sad =(
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Old 09-03-2011, 05:01 AM
 
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yeah , still feeling sad =(
That is normal. That will get better in time.
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Old 09-03-2011, 05:53 AM
 
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he was trying to get me back, i just feel so hard to trust him.
he said he always talking like that to his friends and colleagues, it is toally innocent.
i just dont understand it
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Old 09-03-2011, 06:13 AM
 
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There are no right or wrong feelings. It is okay to feel sad and unsure.

Your actions are what matter. You made a decision and a tough one at that. Did you do it to get a reaction from him or did you do it to protect your feelings, interests and boundaries?

One is immature and the other is not. No matter why you did it, both are difficult, so is staying in a relationship that makes you unhappy.
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Old 09-03-2011, 06:20 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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Just remember if you get back with him, that he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong - and he doesn't intend to change. If you can handle that? Fine. But if you can't? And if you'll get mad at him again, the next time he does this? Then it's pointless to get back together with him.
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Old 09-03-2011, 06:35 AM
 
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Yes, yes and yes, you did the right thing. Move on. find someone who appreciates you.
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Old 09-03-2011, 06:39 AM
 
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Kick him to the curb and don't look back !

He is *high* on the Jerk-O-Meter....
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